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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 month ago

How can I tell my housemate I don't have feelings for her?

My housemate has feelings for me but I don't feel the same way. How do I handle the situation? Should I just leave it in the hope it will go away or should I confront her about it?

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  • 1 month ago

    tbh, she’s going to ask “why” if you’re a good man, you will tell her the reasons on why you don’t feel the same way.

  • 1 month ago

    Try to be sensitive and kind . 

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    James, there's a middle ground between pretending you have no idea and confronting her.

    Talk to her about it. "I'm pretty sure you've got feelings for me, and that's okay. But I don't feel the same way back. I hope that's okay, too. Do we need to do anything different to live together in this house?" There's your conversation starter.

  • 1 month ago

    you tell her you don't otherwise she'll think you do

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