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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 month ago

Is it normal to have some hatred for your friend of 15 years?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    No. Perhaps that's something you need to work through in therapy.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Hopefully it is not all of the time. But other people sometimes do things that are annoying. It might just be a little too much togetherness but sometimes friends of longstanding do grow apart. Try just spending a little time apart and see if that helps. I have a friend for 30 years and I have to sometimes go 3-6 months without getting together because I have difficulty tolerating her sometimes. It's not so much hate though as she does some stupid things. I find putting some time and distance between us helps me have a greater tolerance. We tend to hold friends to higher standards than others but as the saying goes "familiarity breeds contempt."

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