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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 2 months ago

Do you think it’s fair that my girlfriend wants to use a vibrator but I can’t watch porn?

Update:

I’m not a fan of the vibrator especially since she cums in seconds using it while it’ll be a few minutes with my hands but I don’t want to make it a big deal even though I already brought it up. She almost threw it away until I told her she could keep using it. I admit I was insecure and I’m working on it but the porn thing is where I’m confused. It’s long distance by the way. If she can rely at times on a machine why can’t I rely on visuals?

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago
    Favorite Answer

    No equivalence, dear. She's fantasizing in her head while she uses that vibrator. You're looking at other women.

    And a fair number of women can't achieve orgasm WITHOUT something like a vibrator.

    Personally, I don't have any problem with porn used judiciously.  However, if you really need it for masturbation, if you can't come up with your own, creative sexual fantasies, you may be developing a real problem, and your girlfriend is right to be concerned.

  • 2 months ago

    I make fun of porn stars 

  • donnie
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    No get out of that relationship 

  • T J
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    If she is controlling you with watching porn, break up, its only the beginning of the control over you.

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Personally, I think it’s incredibly controlling for someone to tell their significant other that they can’t watch porn. You should be asking yourself why you are with someone who wants to control your private time. 

  • Audrey
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    No. That is not fair!     

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