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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 3 months ago

Why does he disappear every time I open up? ?

I'm on a self-improvement journey and last year I decided I need to open up to people more and let them in, to be vulnerable.

I have this guy friend /mate? I used to spend a lot of time with. Now he messages me first, I stopped making effort, but every time I say something about how I feel about something in my life, he disappears on me. Leaving me on seen. Then a week later he messages me again. 

What's the point of this? 

2 Answers

  • 3 months ago
    Favorite Answer

    He is creating a boundary in your relationship.  He doesn't want to be close friends and since he can't control you to keep your feelings to yourself, he does what he can control by disappearing.  

  • ?
    Lv 6
    3 months ago

    Sounds like he isn't interested in your self-improvements. 

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