How important is kindness?
I asked online what people value most in a spouse whether it was kindness or beauty or intelligence
Around 2/3rds of the men and 4/5s of the woman said kindness is the most important trait
I know kind and loving people with no jobs who are infertile married to filthy rich people that treat them like gold and some of them married people are ugly or disabled or both
I guess what my family values is not necessarily what everybody else values