We both like each other?
I like her and she likes me l. But im just so sad when i see her because she cant even say it and i cant either. She walks away from me when i talk and i do to. We arent even talking anymore. What do i do? Should i stay away
- keerokLv 72 months ago
Why talk? Can't you just be together quietly?
Next time you see her and make eye contact, don't say anything and make a quiet sign. If she understands, just stand next to her or walk beside her. Just like that. Train yourselves to be together in small steps. The talking will come later when you're comfortable with each other already.
- James W.Lv 72 months ago
If you're at least a junior in high school and she's a strong woman - why not just ask her out? (Unfortunately, dating in high school is often a waste of time because only about two percent of high school sweethearts who marry end up having a fifty year marriage.)
Could you possibly be making dating choices mainly based upon whether someone likes you and you like them? Unfortunately this approach to dating, used by most people, usually leads to a broken heart.
May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling people who are pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, mouth and money).
My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), forget about this girl unless she’s a strong person, and eventually look for this type of girl (otherwise you’re setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of woman is difficult to find - but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.
(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)
Hope this helps!
PS Strong men attract strong women like magnets (as well as weak women - so be careful). The best way to get to know a strong woman without dating is to participate in the activities of a community service or a school organization.Source(s): True Love Lasts - written with a character emphasis for teens through young adults, Straight Talk About Teen Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 13-19, Straight Talk About Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 20 and up
- Anonymous2 months ago
I’m confused as to why you are avoiding eachother if you both are into one another ? Go for it .. unless you did or she did something wrong . Not sure why you guys are avoiding the talk