what is the answer to true loneliness?

loneliness is such a terrible thing...when you are on your own, as i, living alone in a flat with your only support your elderly mum and dad who live far away, as is with me.....you are aged 42 and never found any female relationships in your life, so have missed out on a lot....had a hard past and every day is a lonely agony that you have to endure..

what do you do in a case like this? i'm a man from the uk.

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago
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    Loneliness is a choice...get a life.tomorrow not promised to no one...Success is the Quality of Your Journey..you judge yourself for feeling lonely, it makes it even more difficult to take steps to change the situation...isolation is a killer....get off answers and go online dating.fresh air does the mind/body good..u is in need of real connection.

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    I can relate completely. This pandemic hasn't been easy and I have much experience with this. First of all, if you really need to talk to someone find a person you haven't talked to in a while (maybe an old friend from high school, or an old co-worker). Have them over to your house (I'm guilty of this, but it's okay if you're desperate because mental health is just as important as physical health), and try to talk to them. It may sound weird (mainly because it feels weird and a little feminine), but start gratitude journaling. Write down 10 things you're grateful for every day in a journal, I also find it to be helpful if you write down why you're grateful for those things. It may take a couple weeks but you'll start noticing that you feel happier and more energetic. Most of all though reach out to a mental health professional because they can help you out a lot. Again, it might feel a little weird but I promise that if you find the right professional it's going to get a lot better. I hope this helps, because loneliness can be something really hard to go through (especially at your age, because a lot of connections that you had when you were younger are mostly gone). Remember that there is no cure for loneliness but there are things you can do to help it. Also, hang in there because 2021 is right around the corner and after the pandemic there will be a lot more social opportunities.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Whom do I contact about Jews and freemasons (aka homosexual devilworshipping Jew-masons) killing 70 million in Soviet Union by gulags, famine, or shooting squads? How can Russian Orthodox get some justice?

    Russian Orthodox Metropolitan Ioann Snychev was poisoned/murdered by Jew Putin (aka Shalomov) because he refused to work for Jews. KGB poisoned Putin; Putin died in 2007; now doubles (who wear latex masks) pretend to be Putin. Medvedev is David Aaronovich Mendel. Jews murdered Tsar Nicolas 2nd's family; Jews bled them for six hours according to ritual.

    Tsar Nicolas' family was sacrificed by Jews (they bled 6 hours); their remains were burnt; their blood drank; ashes from remains were sprinkled onto 50 hard-boiled eggs (dish called scido Amafreikis) [50 egg shells were found outside the place of ritual murder]. Also, decapitated Tsar's head (which was grey ... hair turned grey when he saw his kids being knifed).. Ritualistic murder... (blood libel is same thing as anti-Semitism ... a lie by Jews to flee justice). Jews came up that Tsar's family was shot. Tsar appeared to warn that

    whosoever worships false remains will become possessed by demons (this just happened like a decade ago ... maybe less)… Jews collect heads of leaders because they believe in reincarnation.

    How about Jews coming up with a mocking holiday April 1st because resurrection of Jesus happened on that day? Jews came up with mocking holidays 23 February (Day of Soviet Army) which was capitulation by cowards in Tsar’s army… or March 8 (international Woman’s day) which celebrates lesbian/prostitute Klara Tsetkin and Rosa Luxembourg.

    Three biggest saints in heaven (in this order): Theotokos Virgin Mary, John the Baptist, and Tsar Nicolas 2nd

    Four biggest sinners in hell (in this order from the bottom of hell moving up to our level): Marx, Engels, Lenin, Stalin

    You could joke that Marx is a bigger sinner than Engels because Marx fooked Engels but how is Lenin a bigger sinner than Stalin when Lenin was fooked by Zinoviev (even by Bronstein once)?

    Lenin's brain was the size of walnut. He had syphilis. Was alcoholic. Born from incest degenerate family. Was in insane asylum. Wife Kruspkaya was probably lesbian 'cause what normal woman would stay with him?

    According to Russian Orthodox researcher Grigoriy Klimov, three stages of degeneracy are

    1)sodomy (69, anal, oral, masturbation, pedophilia, incest, necrophilia, beastiality, orgies, hand job, bj, even all non-missionary positions between husband and wife, etc.)

    2)insane asylum

    3)physical deformities in kids (eyes looking at different angles, wolf jaw, rabbit lip, horse foot, different length limbs, etc.)

    all these accompanied by drug/alcohol abuse

    Jews have like six times more degenerates than other nations because they don't have monkhood. Jewish degenerates become politicians (or similar high rank in society). In Germany during Hitler time, it was eight times. Hitler, Stalin (aka Jugashvilli which means son of Jew), Roosevelt, Churchill were all Jewish degenerates. Hitler had many Jewish coworkers as homosexual partners. Stalin was expelled from seminary for sodomy.

    A few centuries ago, angel appeared to Orthodox Christian community and said not to buy from Jews at bazaar because it's sprinkled with blood (something like that)

    Those were facts… and now for some Conspiracy Theory: Elimination of comments on Yahoo Answers means that Project Pogo is completed. Now, Project Zyphr will initiate in winter. They will turn off electricity for a few days to gather dissidents into underground concentration camps. DRONE WITH SCOPOLAMINE will drill a hole in your window and once gassed you will come out to them yourself. AI (Artificial Intelligence) will make phone calls and posts on social media as if it were you doing it (and no one will notice that you’re gone).

    The remaining people will be chipped. Only marked people will receive food in closed stores. So, when people sign up for food, gov't clerk presses secret button to administer the unforgivable mark of the beast. Hide within 10-15 people group (saints Gabriel Urgebadze and Serafim of Sarov); no documents; no electronics.

    Source(s): According to the Last Prophet (aka incarnated ARCHANGEL URIEL aka saint healer VYACHESLAV KRASHENINNIKOV) if the last descendant rejects mark of the beast, then his/her direct ancestors go to permanent heaven. To reject mark of the beast, one needs to hide within a 10-15 people group without electronics/documents. Documents are from Satan; burn them. Electronics can be used to track you and to show the antichrist (even on old broken unplugged TV set from 1970's); forgive me.
  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    so what's stopping you from doing all those things exactly?

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    We generally build our own walls and prison. You stop feeling sorry for yourself and make changes in your life. These are some lessons of life to offer. Those that live by them generally reach their best position.

    #1) Time flows in one direction. Learn from the past but don't dwell or regret. Each day is new. The future is yours to shape. #2) Things we control and things we do not and things we can influence in-between. Things we are responsible for and things we are not. Separate all things and thoughts by these lines, and do the best you can within them. Don't blame yourself for which you have no control. Don't apologize to yourself or anyone for that which you aren't responsible. #3) The goal for each of us is happiness. That means different things to each person in both what it is and how to get there. But, the common theme is simple to get happy and be happy. Determine yours, do it! #4) The rules - Obey the laws of society and the general social order. Be ready and accepting of violation backlash and penalties. #5) Your most valuable possession is SELF-INTEGRITY. Learn what it is, and treasure it. Many things will flow from there. #6) When something is over it can hurt you no more. From that point you can only hurt yourself over it. Think about what this means. This is just a derived bit from 1 through 5. 

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