Anonymous asked in Arts & HumanitiesPhilosophy · 2 months ago

Why is life so hard?

I don't know if any of what you can say will answer my question, but I legit want to know.

18 Answers

  • 1 month ago
    Favorite Answer

    Life is not hard. People always promote negativity that makes life hard. and also Over expectation and overthinking makes life so tricky, so expecting less make your life more essay and lovable.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 month ago

    because it's a unfair system where you have to struggle just to survive. the system is very flawed which proves no loving god created it. it was all just random chance.

  • 1 month ago

    Negative feelings are dangerous. You must think that the present hardships are only for a better future. You must believe that a bright future is ahead. Then only your spirits can work in the same way as you believe and relieve you from all hardships and difficulties.

    Human beings are ruled by spirits but humans must learn to control and rule the spirits. Spirits possess people according to the mental state of the human beings and keep them in the same state until they are rejected and replaced by another. This is an all time phenomena occurring in all humans. Human beings are always under the influence of spirits. Certain situations and circumstances cause the possession of certain type of spirits. Often thinking and talking about bad subjects or bad imaginations even for fun can take serious turns on one who think and talk. Often thinking and talking about good subjects with good imaginations can create positive effects in your life. Your favorable thoughts and beliefs can bring favorable spirits by your side. The more you think the more would be the possession of that spirit. All spirits (good and bad) have the dominating character. They can take you to the extent of sacrifice or suicide.

    All of your activities, talks and even thoughts determine what kind of spirits you will have for your life. Only these spirits are the reason for the good and bad happening in your life. These spirits determine your destiny from your daily activities, talks and thoughts too. Spirits are separate elements. A human being doesn't have a spiritual body. A human being during his/her life time is living with many spirits which have joined one by one since birth. They are knowledge, skills, feelings, emotions, interests and everything. These spirits are your consciousnesses and memories. Even thoughts are not your own. For example, when you want to take a decision on a subject, one after another the spirits think and you just listen, choose or reject the ideas which they transmit to your mind through your brain in the form of thoughts. Brain is just a media to connect the spirits to your mind. A mind is just a computer's mind. After the destruction of a computer completely you will not get its mind. The same is the case with the human beings. Soul is nothing but an energy needed for the functionality of a body. It is not a spirit or anything else. A body's functionality is based on the auto mechanism.  After death all spirits which accompanied a person quit and go to different places searching new bodies. No one lives after death in any form and there is no afterlife. All human beings are just robots made of flesh and bones and toys of the spirits for their games.

  • 2 months ago

    Some have said that it's desire that makes life hard, and that if one could be perfectly rid of all desire, life would be perfectly easy, but if one were that free of desire, they wouldn't even desire life. Still, I think desire plays a part. 

    Entropy, one could say, is also somewhat to blame. In life, even when things are good, they don't necessarily stay that way, so even if one manages to solve, perhaps after battling through great difficulties, a problem, the problem might reappear, necessitating a renewal of one's trials and tribulations. 

    Competition can also be seen as making life harder. Most of the time, others aren't trying to help you get what you want; they are trying to get, for themselves, what you want. Limited resources go hand in hand with competition to make it harder to get what you want.

    Pain is part of life's hardness. Pain is an inherent part of life, and is a major reason for life's perpetuation; it is a mechanism for motivating a lifeform to do what is necessary for survival. 

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  • Mary
    Lv 4
    2 months ago

    People expect too much and are left disappointed. The best thing is to expect nothing.

  • 2 months ago

    No one was ever promised a rose garden. Life is a test. Pass or fail are the only possibilities. It's all up to you.

  • 2 months ago

    Easy come easy go.

    Learning through the hard way enables us to keep our experience which is useful even unto the final judgement.

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Because it is.

    Get one and deal with it!!!

    Source(s): #TOUGH SHIT!!
  • 2 months ago

    Life  is hard because  you are always seeking material things. NOT content,  an  always making things more complicated than they  are. Thus seek simplicity  know yourself and be aware  and avoid negativity 

  • j153e
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    Connecting with people who care often helps:

    If you can master a trade, and move to a more peaceful place, helps:'s_hierarchy_o...

    If you can find and build loving relationships with family and spouse, and with God, that helps:

    "For Couples Only;" 

    "Understanding Yourself," by Mark Prophet; 

    "A Warrior's Path;"

    "The Road Less Traveled;"

    "The Great Divorce."

    If you can take nature walks, keep a pet cat or garden, that helps.

    "Life" is often differently "hard" for different people.  Usually "hardness" is understandable by marking and tracing causation.  Perhaps proactively seeking help and remedies is a first, best practice.

  • 2 months ago

    Because people make it hard.

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