Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 month ago

When to text my friend after they said they needed space?

My friend sent me a long text four days ago with a bunch of actions I did that made her upset, which in turn made me upset (because I found the things she said to be childish), and after I responded, she said that she respects how I'm feeling, but she needs some space. I haven't talked to her since then, but I feel like I should say something because it's making me anxious. Should I keep leaving her be until she comes to me, or should I text her? I still don't think that what she said was necessary and she can be pretty toxic with our friendship. I just feel like I'm at a breaking point.

3 Answers

  • T J
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    You do not need to be friends with each other. Do not contact her again.

  • Janet
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    She's the one who asked for space. She is the one who needs to end the "space".

    She may never.  

    Since this is a toxic friendship, why would you want to keep it?

  • 1 month ago

    If she can be toxic toward you, then she's not a friend of yours.  

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