How do you cope emotionally and mentally with being around someone who acts like a real friend one day and despises you another day?
- 1 month ago
I would think they have a problem, They may be bipolar, on days they acted like they hated me I would stay away from them. If I ask them what was wrong, and they didn't give me a good answer, and kept treating me badly then I may just drop them as a friend. Somethings can get old..
- HayleyLv 41 month ago
I would confront them and if they do not drop that trait, I am dropping them like a box of hammers. Life is too short to deal with people like that.
- PatriciaLv 71 month ago
I wouldn't "cope" with them, i'd let them know the friendship is over. And that would be the end of that.
- 1 month ago
You could try and bring it up and mention how it makes you feel. If they are receptive, then maybe you can work through it. If they're not, then maybe you should reevaluate where you are in your relationship with them. Hope this helps.
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- iammclaneLv 71 month ago
You learn to not invest yourself in them, and to fend off any requests they might make based upon "friendship". You don't have to hate them, or even repel them. Just establish boundaries. Enjoy and get along with your "friend", so long as they remain on their side of the boundary. On days when they're being pissy, don't answer their calls/texts.
- DestroyerLv 61 month ago
That 'friend' would get the boot.