Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 1 month ago

Can a person become magnetic and have natural charm? I envy those like this as I am forgotten & not like that?

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Normal trolls like you anon?? Reported..

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Pointless answer pearl

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  • 1 month ago

    It's not possible to acquire "natural charm", but you can certainly learn to be MORE "charming" than you currently are. Read the answer from Bent Snowman carefully, and do as he says.

    The main point is to focus on the other person rather than on yourself. Don't stand there staring at your feet thinking "I'm so shy". LOOK at the other person, smile, and ask them something about themselves - and LISTEN to their answer.

    Everybody loves a good listener.

  • 1 month ago

    Some people do have natural charm and allure about them, others need to work at being this way.

  • 1 month ago

    Yeah, usually these people are those that make others feel good about themselves when they are around. That's what I've noticed. They are positive, ebullient, attentive in conversation, ask a lot of questions about the other person, give compliments, and just generally people like being around such a warm person who appears to be "on their side" for them. 

  • 1 month ago

    Yes, all they need to do is find a good example and follow it.

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  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    maybe you should ask them how they do it

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Stand aside and let normal people live their lives 

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