Signs that someone is generally talking behind your back?

Would just like someone to give me a few pointers that are signs of people possibly gossiping/talking badly behind one's back? Thanks

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  • 1 month ago

    The person the badmouthed you too or they shared your info with, seems to already have an opinion at the ready when you, yourself, are just now sharing it with them. This gives indication that the behind the back talker has already told them your business as they are not alarmed, shocked or surprised or asking more questions, because they already got the details from behind the back talker. 

    Next, u can do ur own test. A couple things Ive done is take the assumptive technique and go to the person(mutual friend or associate) u think behind the back talker has discussed u with and discuss how "u know XYZ thinks ur too forgiving of ur boyfriend and always tells everyone how stupid u are. Then pause and see what mutual friend/associate says in response. 

    Generally, if you feel they are untrustworthy, they are. 

  • 1 month ago

    It's annoying if you think that's happening but you cannot stop people talking.  best thing is to ignore it.  I'd drop the people who are behaving like that.  Your life is none of their business.

  • 1 month ago

    When things don't seem right is a good sign something is wrong.

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