Why does a man seek new friendship with a woman if he is already in a relationship ?

We met when he messaged me on social media. He said he is a Christian and wants to share the word of God. We began to text. He eventually invited me to church and we met in person. One week before we actually met, he posted pictures with a woman on vacation together. I presume that’s his girlfriend and I commented on the picture but he has yet to acknowledge or mention being in a relationship. He texts me every few days and still invites me to church functions. 

We became friends and I asked for us to hangout as friends in person and mentioned if it would bother his lady ( that he never admitted to having) then we can hang in groups. He responded “ Okay I got you, we are family. I’ll introduce you to my friends as well.” I started talking to one of his female friends from church that he introduced me to. 

He doesn’t seem to want to talk about his relationship/ personal. Should I accept he just wanted to invite me to church and become my friend while in a relationship or could there be something more there?

3 Answers

  • 4 weeks ago

    It could be he has other female friends.  And unless you plan on him becoming boyfriend he doesnt owe you an answer.  I used to have several female friends in my single days.  Some stricyly platonic, a few more than platonic but not commited.     I

  • Alan H
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    Do not judge until you know.   It could be a sister, cousin or church colleague

  • y
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    Well, when I'm horny I sometimes consider that an option. Never moves past that and then quickly is dismissed.

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