Does this mean anything or no?
When your old college crush is friends with one of your friends on Facebook and your friend posts a picture of you on Facebook and your old college crush puts a like on the picture.
- geetarman56Lv 74 weeks ago
Probably not, just being polite
- James W.Lv 71 month ago
Could you possibly be making dating choices mainly based upon whether someone likes you and you like them? Unfortunately this approach to dating, used by most people, usually leads to a broken heart. May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling people who are pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, mouth and money). My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), forget about this person unless they're a strong person, and eventually look for this type of person (otherwise you’re setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of person is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)Hope this helps!PS Here are "21 tips that could help you to attract a strong person" from the book True Love Lasts:1. Take the time and put in the effort to become a strong person yourself (this is the most important tip)2. Put yourself in as many situations as possible that will allow you to potentially come in contact with other strong people - community service organizations, the library, high school or college clubs, the “Y” or other workout facilities, religious book studies, coffee shops, non-alcoholic parties, bookstores, concerts (wear a good pair of earplugs to protect your ears from permanent hearing loss), co-ed recreational athletic teams, community service projects, mission trips, volunteer service, etc. Try to get to know other people as much as possible without dating3. Be cheerful, approachable, and friendly - smile regularly to put others at ease (let people see your positive attitude)4. Take a real interest in getting to know others. Ask people an open-ended question about themselves in order to get them talking. Share things related to what’s been said as needed to keep the conversation going. Then ask them another question5. Be polite and kind to everyone - even to people who you don’t like or enjoy being around6. If you decide to not accept a request for a date, do it in a kind way (being rude isn’t a good choice and it doesn’t help you - word about it will get out and you’ll become less approachable)7. Be confident about yourself - if you’re trying to become a stronger person each day, you already have a lot going for you 8. Be humble - don’t act like you’re Miss Charming or you’re Mr. Wonderful9. Don’t be concerned about whether or not someone likes you10. Have the attitude that if someone doesn’t like you - they don’t really know you11. Take care of yourself by getting enough sleep (at least nine hours for teens, at least seven hours for adults according to the experts), exercising regularly (if approved by your doctor), and eating a healthy diet12. Develop a good sense of humor - including the ability to laugh at your own mistakes 13. Be known as a hard worker14. Dress well and dress modestly at the same time (wearing seductive clothing doesn’t attract another strong person)15. Pay attention to your appearance, but don’t obsess over it (remember that strong people are attracted to other strong people, they’re not too concerned about looks - because they realize that looks fade with age). If you use makeup, make sure it’s not excessive. Use perfumes and colognes sparingly - if at all16. Truly care about other people 17. Stay in close communication with real friends who can help you through the ups and downs of life and hold you accountable18. Be patient - real friends can help you with this19. Persevere - please remember that almost nothing worthwhile is quick and easy. Please don’t settle for dating a weak person20. Don’t take it personally if someone doesn’t want to date you21. Don’t act desperate for a dateSource(s): True Love Lasts - written with a character emphasis for teens through young adults, Straight Talk About Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 20 and up
- EdnaLv 71 month ago
If your old college crush "liked" a picture he saw of you on Facebook, the "like" means nothing at all; so don't read anything into it.
On Facebook, a "like" is very often nothing more than an acknowledge to the poster that someone has seen something he posted. The "like" doesn't necessarily have any connection with the content of what was posted.
- Alan HLv 71 month ago
Msybe not.....But it could well be worth following up
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- 1 month ago
Your not 14 anymore, you should know the answer
- Anonymous1 month ago
It means nothing.
If a guy LIKES a girl, he pursues her. He's not doing that.
Just because you have a fantasy crush about him doesn't mean he has one about you. And psychologists say that the stronger our crush, is the more upset we get when the honeymoon phase dies out and the problems start. A crush is not what love is like, does not predict that love will happen .. quite the opposite.
- A XLv 71 month ago
It takes a fraction of a second to "like" something on Facebook... and it means about that much. Maybe the "like" is because it was YOUR picture, maybe it was just because his friend posted it. People tend to like much of what their friends post just because. It pretty much means nothing as far as any bigger picture goes.
- Anonymous1 month ago
Facebook postings, have no meaning. They are just whimsy except to the foolish.