Can a marriage last without oral sex?
I was wondering how much of a deal breaker that would be for most guys. I can't ever picture myself giving bjs.
- Anonymous4 weeks agoFavorite Answer
I suppose there are asexual guys out there. For most it will be the demise of the marriage. He needs to know how you feel early on, so he can leave before making the ultimate mistake.
- geetarman56Lv 73 weeks ago
Oral sex is just another way to express desire and love. It's not really a necessity. It's only an additional way to pleasure each other.
- dale_jdcLv 64 weeks ago
Ding ding ding....you just won the prize for most immature question of the day. Congrats.
- 4 weeks ago
Yes as long as the anal sex is fantastic it should all be fine.
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- Anonymous4 weeks ago
I’m not married but been with partner 8 year, she gives me oral but doesn’t swallow or let me c*m in her mouth n I can’t blame her I wouldn’t want it firing in my mouth either, I enjoy her doing it and she likes to do it but I prefer t finish in her anyway, I could live without I guess I’d struggle more with not being able to give her oral as I love her reactions smells and tastes, everyone is different I don’t think anyone sees their self giving bj’s but maybe when you meet a guy your really into maybe you’ll wanna do it to please him maybe you won’t, it might be a deal breaker for some others it may not be
- charlesjerrellLv 74 weeks ago
i am a man and i have lived without them at times but there is something knowing ur woman will do anything , after all i will ,my last Gf wasnt into giving oral so i asked her why and she said she was afraid i would , well you know what lol so i got online and ordered some flavored condoms she loved it so maybe u should try that. good luck
- Ya-HooLv 44 weeks ago
I'm male. That would be a pass for me.
- 1 month ago
If you are saying you can’t picture it, then I assume up you haven’t tried it. You know the expression - don’t knock it til
you tried it ?
When you give your whole heart to the wonderful man you want to marry, and he loves you with all his heart too - there is nothing better than having his pulsating dick in your mouth.Source: me
- roderick_youngLv 71 month ago
The technique of sex is really a minor thing compared to all the other things in marriage. I consider oral sex more of a bonus than essential. And I do know of at least one marriage that has lasted for decades, where the couple never did it.
In general, of course, the more flexible each of you is and willing to experiment with anything the other would like to try (knitting, ballroom dancing, duck hunting... anything), the happier you'll be.
- choko_canyonLv 71 month ago
Yes it can, and it often does.
- ringostarrLv 41 month ago
well my parents are married 25 years and i'd be really surprised if they ever did oral sex, or did sex at all in a decade