Do men really care if a woman is no longer a virgin?
- 2 months ago
It depends on the situation. A lot of cultures or religions do put emphasis on these traits or lack of. If you push culture and potential religion aside the only way i can see it effecting a man is if he himself is a virgin.
- papasteveLv 62 months ago
Only stupid and young men. The first time, is difficult. The first time for most women you have to know to go slow at first, depending how big the guy is. If the guy is average, he will still need to go slow, because most likely she has not put any size thing inside her. And still it will be a little painful. And most of the time she will bleed a little or a lot. Now it is not a big deal, but some guys might get scared about it, if they did not know what would happen. Most young men do not know to bring lube, the first time and any time, a woman engages in sex, she needs to be warmed up to get her wet down there. Some get wet right away, but most can take 15-45 mins of fondling, touching, kissing, foreplay to get her motor, and wet enough to have intercourse. And if she is older then 35, she could be taking medicines that can take it longer, to get her wet or at all. It is very sad, religious people have worked so hard to cut out sex ed classes in our schools.
- Anonymous2 months ago
I think the majority of men probably don't care - let's be honest, it's probably quite rare anyway. They would probably prefer someone with a bit of experience that they don't have to 'train up'
Some will care more than others, if they are virgins, feeling insecure, if they believe in no sex before marriage or if they are just your garden variety control freak who wants to know they have been where no other man has been before... a little controlling though.
The better question i think is why do you care whether they care?
If you are not a virgin then that ship has sailed
- Aril DaineLv 52 months ago
if the guy is virgin then it could be an issue but if both are not virgins then it's not much of a big deal
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- 2 months ago
Absolutely not! I want my woman to have a well travelled viguane approaching that of a sex worker
- Dj2541Lv 72 months ago
The ongoing fascination regarding a Womens Hymen fascinates me, its just another outdated form of control over womens lives.
Its nobodys business except the women who owns the Hymen.
I have met men (usually religious) who demand that their wife is a virgin when he marries her, but they themselves have been the biggest male whores in town.
- bojLv 72 months ago
Some do some dont.
- PatriciaLv 72 months ago
Let's just not worry about whether men care or not.
- BortLv 62 months ago
Nope. We just want to get it wet. We don't care if it's never been entered before. Of course it's an extra factor of excitement if it is the first time for her but I think most men over the age of 20 or so prefer their partner to be experienced.
- MirageLv 62 months ago
Well I for one don't care if someone is a virgin or not.