How do I determine if a boy is straight or gay?
I'm an 18 year old boy who's gay and all I want is to find the boy of my dreams but no matter how many times I fall in love with a boy they all end up being straight.
- reme_1Lv 72 months agoFavorite Answer
Go to the gay center and start meeting guys that you know will be gay or bi. Then you can find out where the guys meet. Stay off the internet- it is not safe. Meet people in public places. Have a wonderful life. Be happy. HUGS from a SENIOR lesbian
- 2 months ago
Its all in the eyes (cruising). If someone gives you direct unmistakable eye contact, it means they're attracted to you. If youre sharp enough, in a large area full of people, you can witness cruising with others. It happens even with straight folk.
- Pompous HarrisLv 52 months ago
Try this simple test. If he has anymore than two of the following attributes then he is indeed a nancy boy poofta:
1. Limp wristed hand shake
2. Pale, clammy skin
3. Buck teeth
4. Wearing of skinny jeans and white T-shirts
5. Lack of moral values
6. Lack of sporting knowledge
7. Inability to catch a ball
8. Exaggerated girlie voice
9. Mincing walk
10. Temper tantrums
11. Easily offended
12. Liberal views
13. Sensitive crybaby
14. Deluded view that he is normal
15. Mental health issues
16. Nasty, vindictive nature
17. Drama queen
18. Hissy fitting akin to school girls
19. Always ill due to numerous infections
20. Duel personality, unnaturally happy then manically depressedSource(s): Many pompous years
- pattyLv 62 months ago
yes my friend was like this. anyway he wrote this friend a letter telling him his feelings and the friend ignored him.
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- PAMELALv 72 months ago
You need to go to gay friendly places,maybe a gay bar, when the virus is finished of course!
- PeterLv 72 months ago
No one 'ends up' being normal, it's the starting point.
- SkyLv 72 months ago
Reme has some good advice. I'll also add that you should try to get to know a guy before you let yourself fall in love with him. If you don't even know what his sexual orientation is, that indicates you haven't learned enough of the overall person. If you don't know the person, how can you be in love with him? You're just feeling a crush or infatuation. There's nothing wrong with that because it can lead to love and a meaningful relationship, but you have to keep yourself firmly on the ground instead of letting your hopes and dreams make your mind float away as you think about a relationship with someone who you don't even know is gay or bi. Just take things a bit slower, and focus on building a friendship with a guy. If you can become great friends with someone, and it turns out he's interested in guys as well, that friendship can build into an amazing love relationship.
- tentofieldLv 72 months ago
If you are 18 and don't live in a backward country, go to a gay bar.
- AlexanderLv 72 months ago
You know if they respond to you. While you're looking, try to be aware of the ones who are checking you out.
- Mx_intersex_folxLv 72 months ago
Wait for him to make the first move or go on a gay dating/hookup app