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Anonymous asked in Social SciencePsychology · 2 months ago

I am 22 years old and have never had sex. With every year I accumulate high expectations! Is there a possibilit that I would be disappointed?

Will sex be boring and not extraordinary as I imagined?

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  • Will
    Lv 7
    2 months ago
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    That depends on your mentality. You either could be very disappointed like I was or you could be brainwashed by entertainment and porn into thinking being sexually active is an accomplishment and contributes towards statistics that make you seem successful.

    I am 26 and to me it is a waste of time and pointless. It does feel good, but not as "heavenly" or pleasurable as the hype makes it sound. I also don't think of being sexually active as an accomplishment. What exactly have I accomplished or have to prove by bringing a stranger home, exchanging saliva with her, then thrusting her or her riding me for about an hour, go to sleep, and then tell her to get out. Nothing.

    Anyways. As I said in the beginning, it depends on your attitude towards it. If you don't glorify sex, it will likely be a disappointment. If you glorify sex and treat it like it means success, you will like it because you simply had sex. 

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  • No other at all in my opinion

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  • 2 months ago

    If it's sex with someone you're not sexually attracted to, it will probably suck

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  • 2 months ago

    Yes. It takes awhile to get to know your body and for a partner to do so. Then it’s better. Before it may hurt, too.

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  • 2 months ago

    it is just sex. it feels good, and is something enjoyable to do

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  • 2 months ago

    i think thats possible, ive never had sex either, just never got a boyfriend

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  • marty
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    It depends on who you're with. 

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    I got bad news and good news for you. Bad- at 22 you are fastly approaching the no going back/ damaged goods point in your life if you don't get it done quickly. Good- the fantasy is much better than the reality. The reality is, women are manipulative, game playing, heartbreakers. So...you lose either way.

    Maybe I should've said neutral news?

    • NiJo
      Lv 6
      2 months agoReport

      Many men put up with that. Which shows how good the act of love feels. Why else put up with that?

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  • Dze
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    lol its just like eating an awesome meal .. once your done your not hungry anymore and its time to do somethin else ...

    • NiJo
      Lv 6
      2 months agoReport

      sleep

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