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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 2 months ago

What is the best way to get proposed?

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago
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    There is no "best way". If she wants to marry you, ANY way is a good way.

    But planning for some dramatic or unexpected proposal is a very bad idea unless you are sure she is ready to marry you.  And best not to make it very public, in case you misread how she feels about marriage or about you.  It's pretty embarrassing to make a big show in front of others and she says "no" ... or "let's talk about it" in front of everyone.

    Be pretty sure she is ready to accept.  There should be a good understanding between the two of you on marriage, readiness for marriage, children, expectations from marriage and for a married lifestyle (including how much time together and how much freedom on your own) and how both of you feel about the other.

    Buy a diamond ring that is twice what your gross monthly income is.  Should the engagement be called off, you are supposed to get the ring back.  

    Another consideration is to buy a cheap fake non-diamond ring and ask her to go shopping WITH you for an engagement ring. That way you don't have to worry about what her taste is in diamond rings ..  just make sure that if the two of you go shopping, she knows what your $limit is and the two of you do NOT look at any rings above that amount.  You have to be firm on this.

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