Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 4 weeks ago

He's a player, so why does he keep asking these types of questions?

I really like this guy, but I know he's a player, so I'm doing the smart thing and beginning to distance myself and talk to other guys as well.

I have a date Saturday, and mentioned it to this player, not thinking anything of it.

He immediately started asking questions about the guy I'm seeing, etc.

THEN (he lives about 2 hours away), said he will be in town on the day of my date.

I acted unimpressed and I think that I got under his skin.

My point is, why if he tells me he doesn't care/just wants a hookup, is he suddenly so very nosy?

And why would he even hint at driving 2 hours down when he can realistically go find other girls?

Thanks.

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  • Linda
    Lv 6
    4 weeks ago

    I think he likes you but also wants to see what other girls are out there. He obviously is jealous now that you are seeing another guy and is worried he might lose you. I am glad you are showing this player, two can play this game and he should be very worried because you can do better than him.

    Source(s): Years of dating experience before marriage
    • Linda
      Lv 6
      4 weeks agoReport

      He might lose you if he doesn't make up his mind 

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  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

    He can't stand the thought of someone else having a chance with you.

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  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

    Stop dealing with him. Block him and cut all contact... 

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