What are some general rule's for finding a wife to marry?

I want to get married. Im looking actively. What are some general rules i should look for when finding someone to marry.

Post as many as u guys know. Thks!!! Much appreciated.

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    The single most important factor to consider is your ability to communicate with your partner. Even people with very different outlooks can sometimes make a marriage work as long as they feel comfortable talking about everything. But generally you'll want someone with the same priorities about work, family, money, religion, sex, geography, et al. Love alone is never enough and lust alone is a disaster. So you'll have to dig more deeply to make sure you're choosing someone with whom you can live a happy life. Because once the infatuation wears off you're left with just the other attributes.

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  • rick
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    Forget about "love". Work on loyalty, respect, a mutual interest in making each other happy, and sexual compatibility. Most love based unions fail. Sex is much more important than anyone wants to believe or admit.

    Source(s): outlived 2 wives
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  • GB
    Lv 5
    4 weeks ago

    It's important to find out what your future spouse likes in the bedroom! If you are a fresh air fiend who sleeps with the windows open all the year round, then it can cause problems if the other one only wants them open in the hottest weather. Also, if you need darkness to sleep, don't marry someone who needs to sleep with a night-light.

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  • David
    Lv 6
    4 weeks ago

    Start by ruling out all women born or raised in Western societies. They don't know how to be wives anymore, which means that they will always be unhappy, and their marriages are doomed to early failure.

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  • 4 weeks ago

    For many years I have proposed that it isn't FINDING a wife but finding the RIGHT wife.  Write down the three things that are most important to you.  The ones you cannot compromise on.  Any prospective partner should do the same.  If there is a SINGLE conflict then do not proceed.

    This is to avoid marrying for "love" while laying the foundations for a future disaster.  If you can compromise on other things then there is no grounds for argument.

    If she is staunchly religious and you don't care.  No problem.  You go along with religion.  But if you are a total right wing political person and your partner is a communist then it is going to blow up later.

    If you are a wise money manager and she is a spendthrift it won't work.

    If she wants four kids and you are happy with that there is no issue.

    But if she wants a family and you want a carefree bachelor life  that is a red flag.  And so on.

    Compromise where you can and know the areas where there is no scope for compromise.

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  • 4 weeks ago

    1 Beauty and health.

    2. Good mind.

    3. Good education.

    4. Love each other.

    5. Job.

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  • 4 weeks ago

    Just look at her mom, if she is butt ugly then look for one with a mom that looks half decent, because that's how she will turn out

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  • 4 weeks ago

    Ask any woman.  It’s strictly a numbers game.  You should find an expired woman that has had at least 3 but can be as high as 30 previous lovers!  Who am I kidding, a woman’s past is none of your business!  Marry her and absolve her sins.  This is what every woman is waiting for.  Good luck!

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