is it love when you miss them, it feels like a part of you is missing. like a piece of your heart is gone when they left too?

i spent a whole 24 hours without him in months, and the whole time it literally felt like my heart was shattering. i was yearning for him and ive never felt this way before. i terribly miss him.

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  • 4 weeks ago

    If this is how you feel, then you've lost your own, personal identity to some man.

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  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

    No, that's just being a drama llama. If you exerted yourself to be your normal self instead of Little Miss Heartbreak, then you would at least appear to be your normal self instead of being an annoyance to everyone around you. Instead you nurture your dramatic exaggerations, nurture your ideas of your own specialness. I'd lock you in your room on bread and water until you made up your mind to straighten up and fly right instead of playing at Little Miss Heartbreak.  

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  • 4 weeks ago

    We fall madly in love, don’t we, thinking (feeling rather) that it will last forever and is enough for a serious relationship. However, it’s very hard to live on an emotional high for very long. Eventually we start to come down from the ecstasy, excitement, strong passions and desires, typically after around 18 months to three years (people vary of course). If couples are friends, discuss their mutual values, shared ambitions, interests, etc., in some depth (obviously there will be some differences, which help make relationships interesting), and make plans, work on their personal development, etc., this can develop into a long and wonderful relationship. If one party feels insecure or low in self respect, it can make for a difficult partnership. It's easy to behave at our best when in love, but marriage, for example, requires a lot of self discipline, sacrifice, compromise and flexibility. If a strong friendship is not in place, the relationship will probably peter out eventually - or worse. Quite often we fall in love because we are lonely and allow ourselves to be won over by anyone who takes an interest in us. Thus we give away control to somebody else if we are not careful. This is another reason for taking things very slowly, and really getting to know someone before committing ourselves or getting too emotionally or sexually involved. Sex can be emotionally bonding, which is disastrous if the other things are not there: strong friendship, similar values and standards, common interests, etc. 

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