After a long internal struggle how do I tell the girl who has been living with me the truth that I am gay?

We do not have sex

We do not have children 

We are not married

We live as roommates

I found Christianity and tried to be straight but after 5 years I realized that I am not straight

I am still gay and am going to need to move away

How do I break this to her?

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  • 1 month ago

    You should have been honest with yourself in the first place and if struggling to come to terms you should have been on your own not involved a girl or woman in your problems - not fair on her, it's creepy. I don't see how anyone can have these fake, dishonest relationships. Now you have to sort out the consequences. 

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  • 1 month ago

    1) I would have thought she'd noticed by now!

    2) There's going to be no easy way to let her know that you are moving on though.  So you've got to talk to her.  Have you considered that she might be okay with the situation!

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