My sister is a bully, what do I do when she hurts my feelings?
She is a bully despite not being a little kid. She is a narcissist with no moral compass. She is all around bad. How do I react when she hurts my feelings? I am fourteen and she is 23.
Nobody I know likes her, not even our parents. They love her but don't like her.
- PatriciaLv 71 month agoFavorite Answer
Not sure why you allow her to hurt your feelings. What she says is NOT about you, it's about HER and her inner misery. You can't fix her misery or her manipulative ways.
so, when she says something you can tell her you're sorry she feels that way or say "oops i have to go" and then turn around and leave (in either case). SMILE when you talk to her, act calm as if what she says doesn't bother you.
This is how you train a narcissist to leave you the hell alone.
- PearlLv 71 month ago
i would just stay away from her as much as possible
- Pearl LLv 71 month ago
just try not to be around her as much as possible