I want to spice up my sex life with my husband, any new ideas or suggestions?
my husband and I have been together for 6 years but married for three. we have a really good sex life but where we currently live we have no privacy and the door to our bedroom the lock is broke. we are moving out soon in a few days to an apartment, no room mates thank god!
any new suggestions would be appreciated
- 3 months agoFavorite Answer
If in your new apartment you are the only tennents so will not be disturbed in any room, then just go for it in the kitchen, living room, bathroom even toilet.I think there is nothing more erotic than just sitting on the sofa watching TV then just start slow foreplay. You can take all night without the fear of being caught.
- Ace ShortyLv 72 months ago
Maybe you should look up the Kama Sutra.
- JimLv 42 months ago
A quickie before going out
Sex in the shower, kitchen, dining room, family room
Use toys- vibrators, dildos, butt plugs, ball stretchers
Take turns tying each other up
- Anonymous2 months ago
hot sauce on his humongous balls and also penis
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- 2 months ago
Have a foursome with a another married couple. Or do it with your neighbors. Call each other fantasy names. Whats the celebrity you had a crush on? Say that name during sex..
- Anonymous2 months ago
Go on youtube and look up the grapefruit technique.
- Anonymous3 months ago
I’ve come to realize that dirty talk during sex is such a turn on... biting, choking.... all stuff I used to be scared of and thought was weird but in the moment it’s very nice
- River EuphratesLv 73 months ago
You can always move a piece of furniture in front of the door to keep people from walking in, or get a wedge shaped block of wood (or a door stop) and jam it underneath (or just put a sign on the door that says 'if you hear the bed a-squeakin, don't come a-sneakin'
As far as how to 'spice up' your sex life - it depends greatly on how 'spicy' it has been so far, and what you (and/or your husband) would be down with. Most guys watch pron, and they will show up with all kinds of f**ked up ideas about what they think would 'spice things up'.
Not only are most women not down with 'pron sex' - much of it isn't actually enjoyable for either partner because many of the positions/activities that they get up to in pron are to make it easier for the camera (and thereby the viewer) to get a good look at the action - and aren't about actual pleasure.
Some couples are extremely repressed, and so any variation in the bedroom would count as 'spicing it up'. Something as simple as some sexy lingerie, some light role play, or introducing some new positions would be 'mind blowing'.
My wife and I have been together for 25 years (married for 24) and we still have great sex. A big part of it is keeping romance in the relationship - it's amazing what a random text (not even sexual in nature - just to let your partner know you are thinking about them), flowers, a note, etc. can do.
- pit bulls biteLv 73 months ago
if you have already experienced oral, anal, etc..........maybe a threeway
- MissALv 73 months ago
Installing a lock takes about ten minutes and $10 for someone without an intellectual disability