Breaking up with girlfriend because she doesn't want sex?
Is this rape or anything like that? I mean according to
https://sapac.umich.edu/article/sexual-assault-mis... says that consent must be given without coercion and coercion includes threatening to end a relationship.So does that seriously mean if my girlfriend doesn't want sex, i still have to be in a relationship with her? If I tell her that I'm breaking up with her, could I seriously land in jail for "rape"?
- Pedal powerLv 61 month ago
Break up if she doesn't want to back it up now it'll get worse with time.
- LizBLv 71 month ago
If you actually do break up with her because you've decided you're not compatible, then obviously it's not rape or assault. You can end the relationship any time you want to, and for any reason you want to. If you use the *threat* of breaking up with her to bully her into sex, then that is coercive rape, and that is what the article is talking about. Coercive rape is a recognized form of abuse, just so you know.
Why would you want to have sex with someone who wasn't enthusiastic about it, anyway? If she's just going to kind of lie there wishing you'd hurry up and get it over with while you're pumping away not caring about her feelings or pleasure, then that's just f***ed up, bro.
- PatriciaLv 71 month ago
You don't have to be in a relationship with anyone, But why whine and moan and get all pissy when a woman doesn't feel like having sex or if she's not emotionally prepared to have sex with you?
It's wrong to try to convince anyone to do something they don't want to do, no matter what it is. I'm sure everyone has experienced something like this, even if it wasn't about sex. Because some people just have no regard for others at all! Or their feelings.
If you're in a relationship with someone, and aren't comfortable about it, and aren't receiving what you want, then move ON. NO you can't land in jail for rape if you've never raped anyone. If your girlfriend doesn't want to have sex she doesn't. So that's the end of that.
You have just put it out there that all women are good for is sex, according to you. Thank you for the warning.
- Anonymous1 month ago
Rape is having sex without consent. if you haven't had sex with your girlfriend, you haven't raped her. You can break up at any time, for any reason, if that's what you want.
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- :)Lv 51 month ago
Don’t tell her that you’re dumping her due to sex then. Just say that you don’t feel compatible anymore. Say anything.
- 熊冰冰Lv 71 month ago
Breaking up with her is fine. Using threats of a breakup to badger her into sex is not.