Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 month ago

Guy doesn't think Im a bad girl, but why can't he commit yet?

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  • Janet
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    1 month ago
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    Men are not looking for commitment. They are looking for sex. SOME of them are also looking for a girlfriend. And a FEW, who have the career and finances in order, are now looking for commitment.

    Assuming a man is psychologically healthy and IS ready to marry someone ... it takes him at LEAST year to get to know the real you well enough to know IF you MIGHT be the one he wants to marry.

    Don't be in a hurry. Quick commitments rarely last. And until WE are whole and happy and confident on our own, we are not ready to make love last with someone else. Stop looking for someone to fix you because the more you want that, the more you will be broken instead.

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  • 1 month ago

    Because he wants to be sure about the commitment. He recall reading the old saying, 'Commit in haste, repent at leisure' , and perhaps he has seen many commitments that have terrified him.

    He want to be sure for BOTH of you.

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  • 1 month ago

    When a man is head over heels for you, he wont need convincing, he wont be able to keep himself away. Men go for what they want. Dont be fooled by them willing to engage in sex. The end

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