Do you think he will kill himself if I get married to someone else. He is unstable?
- 4 weeks ago
You give very little backstory. If your ex is depressed and you still care about him it's OK to care. He isn't blackmailing you by being depressed. It's easy to tell manipulative scheming from genuine depression. It's OK to care for someone and you shouldn't get married to anyone else while you still care so much what that will do to him and what pain it will cause him.
It's ridiculous how people on this page assume he is blackmailing you with literally no back story, so that says a lot about their issues and literally nothing about your ex.
Its OK to care and to help him get better. Sometimes we cause each other pain and people get depressed, doesn't mean they are blackmailing us.
- PatriciaLv 74 weeks ago
It's not your problem and he's not your responsibility. You can't make choices for someone else, or stop them from doing anything at all.
He sounds like a real case to me
- AthenaLv 74 weeks ago
Not really your business.
You have your own life.
- Andrew SmithLv 71 month ago
"Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn". This is a form of blackmail. And the only solution to blackmail is to never let it interfere with what you do. Then the blackmail has no power. Incidentally it is much less likely that any threat would be acted upon if they realize it won't work.
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- 1 month ago
Not your problem unless he is a threat to you, your fiancé or even your family. You can only do so much. And most states mentally ill people can’t be locked up unless they commit a crime.Source(s): MGTOW
- UniverseoneLv 71 month ago
He crushed. He will kill himself if you leave him.
- SexiLexiLv 41 month ago
he survived before you, he will survive after you.