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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsWeddings · 6 days ago

is this 34 year old man ready for marriage?

this 34 year old man is planning to get married on the 20th January but he wants the woman to take out a loan so that they can the deposit on an apartment..neither of them qualifies for a loan..he works 3 months off and 3 months on..he does no work on his off time. he does not have the 1000$ required to pay for the ceremony...he does not have money for rings...he works for a good sum of money but there is nothing to show for the money he earns....what is some sound advice for this man and woman?

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  • 6 days ago
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    Stop spending so much on other things, save up, and get married when you have the money to pay for it--or do what any sensible person would do, get the parents to pay for the wedding.

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  • GB
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    2 days ago

    How well does she know him?  It sounds like a scam.

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  • Anonymous
    5 days ago

    They should speak to a financial advisor.  You may think you can't afford it but it's really a great help.

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  • 5 days ago

    Ready for marriage (ie spending a lifetime with the person he loves) isn't the same as ready to be a financially responsible adult

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  • 5 days ago

    You dont have enough money.

    Dont take a loan neither of you work enough

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  • Anonymous
    6 days ago

    so how he is "getting married" with no rings? hm? and no ceremony?

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  • 6 days ago

    He's ready but she should not be.

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