is this 34 year old man ready for marriage?
this 34 year old man is planning to get married on the 20th January but he wants the woman to take out a loan so that they can the deposit on an apartment..neither of them qualifies for a loan..he works 3 months off and 3 months on..he does no work on his off time. he does not have the 1000$ required to pay for the ceremony...he does not have money for rings...he works for a good sum of money but there is nothing to show for the money he earns....what is some sound advice for this man and woman?
- Beave VillageLv 56 days agoFavorite Answer
Stop spending so much on other things, save up, and get married when you have the money to pay for it--or do what any sensible person would do, get the parents to pay for the wedding.
- GBLv 52 days ago
How well does she know him? It sounds like a scam.
- Anonymous5 days ago
They should speak to a financial advisor. You may think you can't afford it but it's really a great help.
- sunshine_melLv 75 days ago
Ready for marriage (ie spending a lifetime with the person he loves) isn't the same as ready to be a financially responsible adult
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- something fishyLv 75 days ago
You dont have enough money.
Dont take a loan neither of you work enough
- Anonymous6 days ago
so how he is "getting married" with no rings? hm? and no ceremony?
- 6 days ago
He's ready but she should not be.