Is it ok to lose my virginity before marriage? ?
im 18+ but i still feel scared to lose it since im afraid dat ppl will look down on me (since i live in a conservative country)) and i might feel so guilty for some reason even tho many ppl do it already. Maybe bcuz my conservative parents raised me to think ppl who lose their v card bfore marriage are bad ppl. Now im grown up but still afraid.
- FoofaLv 71 month ago
If you live in a country where this is a big deal maybe you shouldn't do it. "Virginity" in these places usually just means you haven't had vaginal intercourse. So you can still do everything but that and still rightfully call yourself a virgin for the purposes of a "good" marriage, which is probably all your parents care about anyway.
- 1 month ago
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- Pedal powerLv 61 month ago
If it's that big of a deal to you then wait till after marriage.
- RajaLv 71 month ago
The correct thing is to remain a virgin till you get married and make your husband to deflower you on your honeymoon.If he find that you are a non virgin he may not respect you much.There is no need to be in a hurry .Wait for the right moment and prove that you are not the flirty type.
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- historyLv 71 month ago
There are lots of people all over the globe who are virgins at 18-19+. There's nothing wrong with that at all. World doesn't need more children who are "legal adults" popping out babies without education, support, finances or much understanding of life and humanity. It's actually totally okay to be a virgin. It's also okay to not be a virgin. Virginity is not really the goalpost of character.
- robert xLv 71 month ago
yes get on with it, live and learn
- Orla CLv 71 month ago
Nonsense, it's perfectly fine to have sex before you're married, ideally with your fiancé. You can keep it between the two of you, no need to tell anyone else.
- CathyLv 41 month ago
No it is not okay to lose your virginity before marriageSource(s): Bill Clinton and Donald Trump
- 1 month ago
It is totally ok to have sex before marriage. It is also totally ok to wait until marriage. It is your body, and only you can choose what is right for you and your body.
- PatriciaLv 71 month ago
So in other words, your parents shamed you about being a sexual person. Parents like that need their heads examined.
If you're an adult, you need to make your own choices.