Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 month ago

My gf thinks i should bend myself for her attachment issues, clinginess, &constant need of reassurance. Am i wrong for not dealing with it?

My gf said “you don’t have time for my clinginess, attachment issues, and constant necessity for reassurance” isn’t that something she needs to fix within? I work all the time selling cars .. and give her love when i can. 

“You only give me attention when you’re off work or on days off”.

I give her so much time during work i don't even sell as many cars and she doesn’t see the problem.. 

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  • JonZ
    Lv 7
    1 month ago


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  • Jerry
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    So tell her "You're right. I don't have any more time and attention to give than what I'm already giving you, and that's not going to change. If you need out of the relationship I'm going to miss you being my girlfriend, but I'm not going to be mad at you. You need to do what you need to do and I respect that." 

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