When an abuser constantly uses the tactic "you hate me, why do you hate me," what is that called? Is it called something? ?
The abuser in my situation will take a context and then like project onto it and make it about something else entirely. They have a horrible victim complex and so they always make it about themselves. They'll twist something really small into something big and completely different and scream, "you ******* hate me! You wish I would die!" when I've never said or implied anything like that, and it has nothing to do with the original subject. I'm really curious if accusing someone of something like hating them and stuff is a named form of abuse (like gaslighting) or not. Thanks!