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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 month ago

Why does it bother my parents that I DON'T want to get?

I am a 24 year old female, I just finished college, I want to focus on my career & maybe go back to school for further study...I think I may be asexual because i just never had an interest in this..my parents just can't accept that i don't want to get married. I asked if they want me to be miserable & their reply was "OK I want peace & quiet so you can stop talking now.." The conversation always ends in this & I said back something awful "If you guys can't accept me for who I am then I may start distancing myself & be around people who love me for who I am" I just don't understand what is wrong with not wanting to get married...They are very religious but in my religion girls don't have to get married. It must be something else...My parents are miserable together. Do they want me to be miserable?

Update:

I never have had an interest to date anyone..I just don't get why my parents are so bothered by this...They obviously don't love me like I thought they did & it hurts so much. 

Update 2:

My parents already have 14 grandkids 

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  • Anonymous
    3 weeks ago

    Gov't is killing you with high frequency electricity.Theotokos Virgin Mary gave prayers to "Schema-nun Antonia" on how to save aborted babies from hell. If you pray these prayers diligently, aborted babies are released from hell. On each painted nail there are 40 demons. Smoking is censer to the devil.Using foul language calls upon Pagan deities (aka demons); Holy Spirit departs on 7 meters. People who use drugs see demons who cleverly disguise themselves as ghosts and aliens.America will be last country to switch to Euro (antichrist's world currency). Contraceptives = abortion;using contraceptives for 1 year = 5 aborted kids.Miscarriages happen because of high heels; cesarean because of tight pants (second generation cesarean will be infertile).Unbaptized aborted/miscarried/unborn babies burn in hell for until Final Judgement; if pregnant, keep the kid and deliver at home because kids are chipped using IVs and vaccines in hospitals. Dentists and doctors chip patients secretly. Ultrasound leads to mark of the beast; don't do ultrasound, please. Abortion leads to breast cancer; a demon is released from hell for each aborted kid. Dogs can become possessed; don't keep dogs inside your home [Pelageya of Ryazan]. Walmart has technology to administer mark of the beast to those who have cat bacteria in their stomachs; stay away from cats [Athanasius III of Constantinople]. Next false flag is the Statue of Liberty. Above earth there is ice (hemisphere); when rockets go up they bring ice down from upper sky to lower sky; ice stuck in lower sky will fall on us during Apocalypse. Earth is flat; earth stands on 3 pillars (the Most Holy Trinity); pillars stand on water at zero Kelvin; underneath this ice there is a bubble; and then the abyss. Zodiac is planetary prison of demons; don't believe in horoscopes or you'll exhibit the traits of the trapped demons. Most thoughts and dreams are from demons; demons never do good. Sleep fully clothed; pray the Jesus prayer. 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Antichrist will trick people that he can do mountain moving and resurrection using holograms/hypnosis; fire from the sky is real because of pollution gases in the atmosphere. Antichrist will have food only for 6 months; then he will feed his 666ed people flour from mashed up turtles (Tavrion Batozskiy), but this won't be enough because 666ed people are 10 times as angry and 7 times as hungry as normal people even though 666ed people became shorter (3-4 feet tall = 80 - 120 cm) because nanochips do function of organs (organs diminish) [Nilus Myrrhgusher]. If you have a lot of nanochips in your forearm, then you will not be able to make proper Orthodox sign of the cross (last mercy for you will be to cut your forearm off). Nanochips are sprayed by the gov't using chemtrails; they're also in gov't food and medicine; so, eat food from your own garden. In case garden is destroyed by ice from the sky, have chickens for eggs and goats for milk (Paisios). Lipstick contains cells of aborted fetuses, dog fat, and placenta; human flesh is in McDonalds, Pepsi, toothpaste, antiaging, anticancer, vaccines, perfume, etc.; that's why you should not be using anything that modern society has to offer. You're better off hiding within a 10-12 people group in order to escape Apocalypse. During Apocalypse, Chrtistians will eat dirt from under pussywillowtree as it's filled with tears of Theotokos Virgin Mary; this water will flee if a 666ed person tries to get it. Barcode is Druid black magic curse; QRcode is Mayan curse; when food is scanned, it becomes dead because laser is a substance from demons. Don't go into a UFO to be healed by demons. Green 666 is given by isotope rays on wrist or forehead when people stretch hands to receive small plastic grey card with no name on it (World Passport). It doesn't just have to be during this procedure (could be anything you sign up for or anywhere where there is a secret scanner); biometrics (fingerprints, eyes scan) or getting picture for passport are very dangerous because they could mark you secretly. Gabriel Urgebadze said that they do it on index finger when they scan your finger. Basically, try to avoid new documents at all cost. Police will microchip and isotope ray people on highways. Chipped people will be influenced by computers to take grey plastic card; but when they do, green mark by isotope rays is given on forehead/wrist. Food stores will isotope ray people too. Antichrist will also release prisoners to mark people. Reject 666 at all cost because it leads to permanent hell. If you're about to be marked, pray the Jesus prayer. Hide with Orthodox Christians to escape 666; leave all electronics behind so that antichrist's minions can't track you; burn documents because they're from Satan. The Most Holy Trinity gives you a name during baptism; devil gives an antiname during antibaptism (ex. Social Security Number). People who die with these Satanic documents go to concentration camp in hell to await Final Judgement; once the BEAST Computer is burned down, souls will be released for Final Judgement. That's why you should give back documents of your deceased relatives back to the gov't so that the gov't cancels these digital antichristian names given during antibaptism by the beast system; or just burn these documents because gov't could get upset and could send demons to mark you because of this outright act of defiance. Prophecy from half a millennium ago describes Final Judgement like this: Jesus was very upset with people who had little boards (plastic cards) in their hands because they wanted discount from the antichrist. Give to charity in the name of Archangel Michael; he rescues people from temporary hell twice a year [at midnight September 18-19 and similarly on November 20-21; pray at these times on your knees remembering the deceased by names (adding "and relatives by flesh up to Adam") so that they are rescued if they're in hell] (or brings them up a level, that is, to a level with less punishment; eventually, people are freed). Feed the pigeons; when pigeons bow down, people are saved from temporary hell. It's a big sin to remember the dead with wreaths (because demons put these wreaths on their necks if they're in hell with their hands tied up behind their back while hanging by their hands), meat, alcohol, sweets, and worldly music. Demons print icons of saints in newspapers so that you throw these newspapers in the trash blaspheming these saints. Crosses on soles of shoes and back of pants are blasphemy. Demons make carpets with crosses and put them on sidewalks so that people walk on crosses. Playing cards mock how Jesus suffered on the cross: clubs (cross on which Jesus was crucified), diamonds (four nails Jesus was crucified with), hearts (sponge with vinegar that Jesus was given to drink),spades (spear with which Jesus was pierced).Cremation is devil worship; only blasphemers such as Lenin should be burned; if Lenin is buried, earth will be polluted, and China will attack Russia because of this.After China attacks Russia, Ruski Orthodox Tsar (shown by resurrected Seraphim of Sarov) will come to power in Russia;this Tsar will slay traitors inside church and gov't; as a result, Russia will be the only country not under the antichrist.Ecumenism = 263 heresies;each heresy leads to hell. In 2006 in Moscow (that's why Moscow will sink),representatives from most religions signed a document where it says that all religions worship the same Supreme Being [aka the devil]. Priests who participate in ecumenism will have Pagans walking on their heads in hell. Arkhimandrite Antonin Kapustin left a prophecy that Church of All Russian Saints in Gorny Monastery, Ein Karem, Israel will be blessed by forerunner of antichrist; Patriarch Kirill of Russia and Mark of Berlin blessed this church in 2007. When priests pray for current gov't (instead of praying for future Tsar),Jesus gets up from His throne and turns His back to them. Forgive me.

    Source(s): Women wear headscarves tied at the front to prevent headaches from sky pushing down and to prevent throat cancer. Mega-tsunami for New York will be 400 meters; then engulfed-in-lava Los Angeles will be flooded too; also, asteroid destroys Gulf of Mexico; only Alaska, Eurasia, and Africa remain (obviously without coasts). 1st big earthquake in Russia; 2nd bigger one in China (will be split in half; radiation!); 3rd biggest will be in the USA (Greek Orthodox monk Elidiy from Africa); forgive me.
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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    For the time being explain to them that you're too young to get married. But it doesn't take that much ego suppression to just tell them what they want to hear. If you weren't so vocal about your present feelings they'd probably just stop talking about it. So maybe try "You never know..." instead of "I will never..." Any time you talk in absolutes on any issue you're likely to get pushback.

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    I don’t understand why other people want to get so involved in ones own personal matters. So what if you don’t get married or date  etc.... it’s your business. If it makes you happy ....be happy. 

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Why are they so involved in your life?

    Why to make your own adult decisions?  MOVE OUT.

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  • 1 month ago

    Of course they love you. They just think they know what would make you happy. Certainly go on about your life, but tolerate and be patient with your parents. They will get used to your ideas someday, and if they don't, don't let this separate you from them. They won't always be here to love you.

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  • K8
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Getting marriage is a choice, not a requirement.  

    YOU create the life you want to live so make it enjoyable for yourself.

    Your parents may be worried that you will be lonely or they may be worried about what others think or something else along those lines.  I would bet it has to do with how much they love you.  

    Let them talk all they want and then go about making the life you want to live.  Just let the anger at them go, they mean well.  Most parents are like that.  My parents used to worry and say stuff about marriage and kids.

    I was not sure I wanted to get married or have kids which worried my parents a lot.  I choose to do both, eventually.  I have a very happy marriage of 32 years and 2 grown kids who I love dearly and am close with.  My life is really good.  If I had chosen to remain single and childless I would have had a different and good life as well.  

    Be open to all possibilities and choose what you want as you go along. 

    And be loving and patient with your parents.  One day they won't be here and you will miss them horribly.

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  • Tj
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Ignore them. Tell them once the time is right you will, but right now you are still working on your professional future.

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  • Many parents want to be grandparents. You're 24 and you may well feel differently about relationships and intimacy in 5-10 years. Or you don't.

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  • 1 month ago

    Not wanting to get married is 1 thing, but thinking marriage = miserable is completely something different. Marriage only = miserable if you marry the wrong person. That's why you date. To get to know them, see if you will work in the long term. That's literally the point of dating, but if you have zero interest in getting married, there's nothing wrong with that. They just want you to be happy and well cared for. Parents will be parents, I mean I'm 33 and my mother constantly asks my husband and I when we're having kids. My answer is always, "never". I don't want kids, but that doesn't stop my mom from trying! My older brother and his wife just had a baby and despite my mother knowing I don't like kids, she still hands me a picture of the baby and says, "Isn't he cute?" It just comes to a point where don't get so angry about it. Stand your ground, shrug it off and leave it at that. If they bring it up EVERY conversation, then put your foot down and tell them you're going to talk to them much less if they continue to bring it up. That it isn't helping their cause, that it's going to make you hate the idea on a deeper level. lol

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  • 1 month ago

    I know a family that home-schooled their children for religious reasons and to "protect" them from the outside world. Both the girls have moved as far away as they could get- to the other side of the world, literally, to teach English. They have both told their parents that they don't believe in God and they're never going to get married or have children. Their parents are happily married, but too rigid with the kids. It's normal for people to want grandchildren, but most have sense enough not to badger their kids about it. There's really no way to make them happy. You just have to stick with what you want to do. 

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