What to do?
My boss at work proposed to me a job in Thailand. It comes with a salary raise and a promotion. The job lasts 3 years. When I told my wife about it, she refused to come with me. She says she will miss her family and her job. Her salary as a teacher is nothing much. It’s barely enough to pay for a vacation. And her family will not disappear. I’ll be leaving my family too. It’s no big deal. It’s not like we’ll leave them forever. It’s just 3 years.
- Anonymous3 weeks ago
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- FoofaLv 71 month ago
If she's refusing to go I guess you either go alone or you turn down the job. P.S. Denigrating your wife's professional and income isn't going to go far in convincing her to give up everything to go live in a developing nation. It might also interest you to know that she'd be merely a dependent on your work visa, unable to work herself. So you're asking her to sit idle for three years and then face the very difficult task of getting back into the teaching profession when you return home.
- mmmLv 71 month ago
your wife has a good job and life here -
what will a job in Thailand give you that you do not already have?
her salary as a teach is nothing much? it is obviously meaningful to her
PS: just because its no big deal to you - doesn't mean that is how she feels and you not understanding? is a problem
- sunshine_melLv 71 month ago
This is the kind of thing you need to communicate to each other about.
3 years may not seem like a long time - but it would be for her. Her salary might not be as big as yours - but that doesn't mean her job isn't equally important to her.
Basically - you're not more important than her; and you can't expect her to uproot her entire life just because you want to go for job there.
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- RPLv 71 month ago
It all depends on one's point of view. Three years can be a lifetime and being separated is very disruptive.
- Ace ShortyLv 71 month ago
When in the world do you take vacations? Either she is not a teacher or you are lying. I don't blame her, I wouldn't go either. You don't sound smart at all, you boss PROPOSED? OFFERED would be the correct word.
- 1 month ago
I think you need to work on your persuasive technique. This is a great opportunity that she should not just toss aside without serious consideration. Focus on what is in it for her. She can communicate with her family regularly through facetime or skype. She could use that time to get an advanced degree, or teach English. You can save money for vacations, kids college, and retirement (because usually on these assignments the business covers living expenses).
- DavidLv 61 month ago
Contact me direct. I'll take the thai job. Sounds awesome. No wife to worry about, either. I think your wife is being extremely short-sighted and inflexible. She can be a teacher in Thailand. And as long as you find an apartment with decent broadband Internet service included in the rent, she will not have time to miss her family.
I think everybody should live outside of their home country for at least 2 years straight, preferably when they are young (20s, 30s). It changes your whole perspective on...everything. I know I've learned more living in South Korea for the past several years than I did in 17 years of school in the United States.
The only thing I would caution you about is, if you spend significant time in SouthEast Asia, you will be entirely discontent about the fact that you are married to a Western girl.
- LindaLv 61 month ago
Thailand is a beautiful country but I don't know if I'd want to live there. The raise and promotion would be a plus though. But 3 years is a long time to be in a foreign country. I can understand your wife's reservations especially if you have kids. Missing her job and family, especially family is a reasonable excuse. A teacher may not make a lot, but it is a rewarding career that is important and I'm sure she loves it. Even if it doesnt pay for many of the extras in life, it's her career and her passion. Her family won't disappear but 3 years seems like a long time and it is. If you go, there are many things to consider. I think it would be something that would take a lot of thought and planning before making this huge step. Three years in a different country with a different language and culture and lifestyle is a big deal to many people. And if you don't like things, it may be difficult to move back if things don't work out to plan. What to do? Write out a list of pros and cons and buy a book about moving to Thailand and look at it with your wife and then plan the move if she agrees to it, very carefully. It might be a very interesting experience for everybody especially if your wife can use her teaching skills there. Best of luck!
- ReportingLv 61 month ago
Go for it. The whole place is a brothel and you will love it;. You can come back every 2-3 months for a week or so to see your family.