How do I get someone to like me????
- oldprofLv 71 month ago
And here's the secret. People like other people who fill their needs. In other words, being likable is more about fulfilling what the other person needs than it is about you.
If you have an acquaintance who's really into science fiction and you want her to like you, for example, you'll be into science fiction too; so that the two of you can communicate and share your scifi experiences.
If you have an acquaintance who's a film and foodie person. You'll be a film and foodie person too. Then you might end up with a friend.
And you don't get a true friend by the shotgun approach. You can't be all things to all people. So figure out what your interests are and aim straight for other people who share those interests.