Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 2 months ago

Please help. I am really confused. How should I deal with this situation? Please help it's not a troll question.?

I am in a Dilemma. I have a friend who cares for me a lot. I usually sit beside him when we go on a trip. He makes sure I rest my head on his shoulder so I can sleep peacefully in a car. Sometimes, he holds my hand, squeeze them when I rest my head on his shoulder. I think he is interested in me. If I am cold, he gives his jacket, goes on a walk with me. He holds mu hand if I am scared. But now, the problem is, his elder brother seems interested as well. He insists me to visit their home, brings the food I love. His parents listen to their elder brother more. He is more mature. The difference is, the younger will treat me the best in person. While the other is a bit shy, he talks to me over the text more. Shares his secrets and asks my opinions. They both know I talk to both of them. The younger one rarely talks to me over the message. Whenever I meet them, then only he talks to me like he is in love with me. He insists me to rest my head on his shoulder in front of his parents. Like what am I supposed to do.? None of the brother has confessed their feelings yet. Tbh I am more into younger one, but I am not sure if he likes me and the other one is very mature though. Maybe I am overthinking and none of them likes me lol. 

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    What IS probably clear is that you can't date either one of these guys without causing drama between the brothers. There are never only two choices in who to date so find someone who doesn't share these guys' DNA and date that person.

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Hi “Scammer.” You’re a spammer, i.e. a troll. 

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