Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsWeddings · 1 week ago

is your friend a jerk if.....?

he feels like a winner because he got married first and you are still single...

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  • 1 week ago
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    Yes, marriage is not a race

  • 6 days ago

    My guess is he was probably a jerk long before any wedding took place. 

  • Raven
    Lv 5
    1 week ago

    Honestly, just let him know that he is coming off as a major jerk towards you. Let him know that his marriage status does not make you feel inferior to him, but if he thinks so otherwise then maybe it is time to part ways as friends. Just tell him you notice that he has been treating you differently lately, and that you want an explanation as to why. The easy thing about friendships is that there is no awkward breakup. You can say your feelings as you please, and if one of you has a problem with the other then you can simply stop being friends. There is no need to put up with his childishness, and don't let others try to convince you that his behavior is justified, because it isn't. They say that people's true colors show after marriage. Sometimes it's for the better and sometimes it's the complete opposite.

  • 1 week ago

    No. His feelings are his feelings. A jerk is as a jerk does. 

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  • Anonymous
    1 week ago

    did he say this to you? if so, my best advice would be to stop being friends with him.

  • drip
    Lv 7
    1 week ago

    Just could be the glow of getting engaged or just getting married. As long as it doesn’t last long, just a wee bit of a jerk

    • D
      Lv 7
      1 week agoReport

      just because you get engaged doesn't give you the right to act like that to your friend

  • Anonymous
    1 week ago

    He's kind of a jerk but you can't get past human behavior and egos so he's probably not the only one who may feel that way.  Good Luck hope you land one.

  • 1 week ago

    He can feel however he wants to feel about it.

    If he’s verbalizing it to you in order to make you feel bad about yourself ... well, yes, that’s a jerk thing to do. But presumably this behavior didn’t magically appear out of nowhere, so the better question is, why are you friends with this dude in the first place? And if he did it to other married friends before you, why didn’t you say something to him then?

  • 1 week ago

    Why should this bother you at all? He's entitled to his own opinion. Yours differs. In time he may think he wasn't such a winner after all....or maybe he won't. It's only what YOU think that matters.

  • Anonymous
    1 week ago

    Ask him in a year's time if he still feels like a winner when the he realises his sex life evaporates just like his wages do every time he gets paid.

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