How to get approached?

I try to smile as much as I can and look pretty but no guys are interested in me

8 Answers

  • 9 months ago

    How about you start talking to guys and stop waiting on them. 

  • 9 months ago

    Focus on making friends with men.  Men will often hit on their female friends.  Try a church group or other social group.  

  • 9 months ago

    To be fair, you aren't interested in any specific guy either, are you?  Guys usually take their cues from how a girl reacts to them, not to everyone.  A girl who is happy and cheerful and friendly to everyone is not one who seems to be interested in them.

    The time to worry about being approached is when you find a guy you actually like.  Then you can signal interest to him and only him.

  • Brian
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    If you have a boyfriend, why do you need others to be interested in you? I'd suggest that you adore what you have so you can move forward with him :)

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  • 9 months ago

    Stop thinking that all you need is a smile and a pretty face to be approached in the first place. Why not approach them? Since no one is approaching you then perhaps you should consider taking some initiative instead.

  • 9 months ago

    Dating is a good way to get to know someone.  

    You can become Good Friends or MORE, 

    if you are Compatible and Interested.

    Never ASK someone for a Date.  

    Asking puts a person on the defense of HAVING TO MAKE a decision and giving you an answer.  

    Most people say NO, because No is SAFER for them. Later on 

    THEY MIGHT regret they said No and feel like they blew their chance with you.  

    If you INVITE someone to join you somewhere, they have time to think about it without pressure and can make a decision without giving you an answer/response.  

    To get a date without asking: 

    INVITATIONS and ASKING for a Date are the same thing, 

    but an invitation is easier to offer, rather than ask for a date. 

    Writing a note and handing it to him or having someone 

    hand it to him, will be okay. 

    Most invitations are in WRITTEN FORM. (add ph# so now He has it) 

    Texting also works, if/when you get their number. 

    Tell him where you will be on a certain day and at a certain time. 

    Let him know he is welcome to join you if he has time. 

    EXAMPLE: "Hi. I'm going to be at the park by the pond on Saturday at 2:30pm. You're welcome to join me if you have time. I will probably be bored, just feeding the ducks". 

    EXAMPLE: "I'm going for ice cream after school / work at (location), you can join me if you're not busy. My treat." 


    It was just an invitation, NO BIG DEAL. 


    Make wager (bet) with the person you want to spend time with. 

    Lose that bet to them INTENTIONALLY. 

    The wager should be something that puts you together alone and 

    away from everyone you know. 

    Make the wager something you can afford and non threatening 

    or too suggestive. 

    (an ice cream cone, a milkshake, a coffee, even washing a car) 

    EXAMPLE: "I'll bet you an ICE CREAM SUNDAE, I can say 

    the alphabet backwards faster than you." 

    Then LOSE the bet and take him for an ice cream sundae. 

    (enjoy your Date) 

  • 9 months ago

    there must be something in your personality that they dont want and you should figure it out what that is and try to change it

  • 9 months ago

    Wear something more slutty and lose some of that puppy fat.

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