What does it mean when a girl is always trying to "fix" my appearance?
I have this friend at work who is a girl and we laugh and joke around and just have a fun time together. Sometimes though, she is always doing things like straightening my hat when it's crooked, or wiping dirt off my shirt, or wiping something off my face. Like how someone's wife would to their husband or something. She also makes fun of me when my clothes are bleach stained, ripped or messed up in some way. Does this mean she likes me? Why does she do this?
- LindaLv 63 weeks ago
She likes you a lot as a good friend and she loves teasing you to get your reaction. She may like you more. Tease her back more if you like her.
- PatriciaLv 73 weeks ago
I never wiped anything off my husband's face, straightened his hat or wiped dirt of his shirt either. He's a grown up he can figure it out. That stuff is what a mother does. I'm not my husband's Mommy
If you want to know whether a female is interested in you, ask her out on a date
- 3 weeks ago
Yes buddy, the typical flirting from a girl. Go for it and ask her out if your interested too. What harm can be done? Have a little fun.
- sparrowLv 73 weeks ago
When primates groom each other, it's a way to bond.
So maybe it's the same thing with her, but I think you
knew that already.
When I had surgery, and I got my first meal after waking up from
anesthesia, the anesthesiologist came into the room to check on
me. I was eating rice, and there was a little piece of rice left on
my lip. The guy reached over and brushed it off with his fingers.
I didn't know what to think, and I thought this was overly intimate,
and didn't think it was appropriate.
So yeah, I think it's overly friendly for her to do that, but in this case
it's okay if you like her back.
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- Anonymous3 weeks ago
First off, buy some new clothes. If you can tolerate her "motherly" attitude, then by all means, keep dating her.
- BlondeLv 73 weeks ago
My opinion. I’m picky about ‘cleanliness’. Other women are all about ‘style’. But in the end, does it matter? If it bothers you, talk to her about it....you may be a complete slob and need to have more pride in your appearance. Lol.
- WhateverLv 73 weeks ago
I'm a wife and I don't do that sh*t to my husband. That's the kind of sh*t a mom would do.
She's treating you like a child instead of like an adult. Going by your description though I can see why. You seem to be a hot mess who can't care for himself properly.
- David SLv 73 weeks ago
She sounds friendly and helpful. She wouldn't make jokes at your expense and remain friendly if she didn't like you.