Why do people act like getting a girlfriend is a reward and getting a boyfriend is a choice?
- Midnight BluesLv 72 months agoFavorite Answer
1,000s of years of societal conditioning teaches men that being able to provide for a woman is a worthy pursuit. I personally think it's a bunch of crap designed to control and regulate society. When it comes to the relationship she needs to bring more to the table than sexual access to her. But blue pill men that over value sex don't see that and in turn end up being in a dysfunctional relationship when they get "rewarded." Pair bonding with someone should be a mutual partnership, not a reward, it doesn't matter if you're male or female.
- Dv8sLv 72 months ago
It's not in the getting, but the keeping that shows merit.