How to prepare for losing your virginity?
I’m a 23 year old female who is (very nervously) prepping to have sex for the first time next week. I’m ready and I want to, but I’ve never even used a tampon and am wondering what to expect and if there’s anything I should do to prepare.
- geetarman56Lv 73 months ago
Masturbation is best. Fingering yourself and using some object like a hairbrush handle to stretch the vagina a bit first before having actual sex helps. Also, when you get ready make sure there's plenty of good, hot foreplay performed to get you wet. You may think about also using lubricant the first few times to help ease things.
- SheilaKLv 43 months ago
Find a respectable man who loves you, get a diamond ring and then get married.
- Anonymous3 months ago
You should prepare for getting "pregnant", "STD", "sin" and "pain"......LOL
- pit bulls biteLv 73 months ago
by their teens, most have experimented by inserting objects and know what to expect
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- alan PLv 73 months ago
Firstly don't think of it as losing your virginity. You are not losing anything and he is definitely not take anything either. You are going to share your first sexual experience with someone. It best if you are used to intimate physical contact without having full sex so that when you go all the way its not a very big step. If you haven't done that then don't feel that you have to have him inside you the first time you go to bed together. Talk to your boyfriend/partner/fiancé about what you expect. He's probably nervous too.
When a woman gets aroused she not only gets wet but the vagina also opens up making it easier for the penis to enter. It's important to do enough foreplay to reach this stage before going further. When he does try to put it in it might only go a little way at first but he mustn't force it. Don't worry. Enjoy feeling it there, move it around a bit, look at each other, kiss and cuddle, relax and then have another gentle push. If it hurts stop. It might be easier if you go on top with your knees either side of his body. Then you can control the process. If you don't want to get pregnant make sure you are using good quality contraception.
Everyone is different and you have to learn together a couple with love and understanding what works for both of you.
- LadyMertonLv 73 months ago
Yes you Learn about & explore your Own body
there are Free Books at the library about the female body & sexuality
you can start with the Classic My Body Myself book
Plenty of good sites with True information- this one has plenty of information on the female body and first time sex.
Education is the Key== Read these articles- easy to read - the Facts
Educate yourself- you are 23 yrs old.
- River EuphratesLv 73 months ago
You need to learn to relax - otherwise it's likely to be painful and unenjoyable.
He needs to take his time, and go easy. If you aren't ready, then tell him so.
- PatriciaLv 73 months ago
The only think you really need is to be sexually aroused before sex. And if the boyfriend doesn't sexually arouse you, there's no use to have sex with him at all
- unknownLv 43 months ago
A different advice that no one usually says its that you need to feel confortable being naked in front of him. So take your time and take off your clothes. You can wait till the anxiety goes away and you feel confortable to have sex.
- 3 months ago
Get that kitty lubed up and work a cucumber or banana into it to prepare for your white boyfriend. If by chance u are giving it up to a black guy - good luck to you. You are going to be ripped in half.