Should I tell my 90 year old biological father I'm his son after 50 years of him not knowing he had a son?
- LindaLv 64 weeks ago
I wouldn't. He might have dementia or memory problems or the shock of finding this out might cause him a lot of anxiety possibly a heart attack. See him as a friend only and enjoy the remaining time you have with him.
- Anonymous4 weeks ago
If you want him to know then yes. You are in a hard spot trying to decide. I don't
see what it would hurt to tell him unless there is something that has been hidden
all these years. Good luck whatever you decide.
- PearlLv 74 weeks ago
i would, you might not get another chance if hes already 90
- Dr. StephanieLv 74 weeks ago
If you can write again and provide some details, background, history, it would be helpful in advising you.
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- GaryLv 44 weeks ago
That would be nice considering he’s very old.
- FuhrLv 64 weeks ago
Sure. Just be sure he signs the life-insurance forms first.