I’m nervous to talk to my girlfriend, please help. ?
I’m a freshman on high school but I asked a girl out and she said yes. We text a lot but we barely talk because we’re both nervous. Please, any suggestions to help me get over it.
- ez2tock2Lv 74 weeks agoBest Answer
You CANNOT call someone A FRIEND, if you are AFRAID of them.
Find out what FRIEND means, then choose the right word.
She IS NOT your GF, she is your DATE. When you are comfortable with each other, THEN the friendship starts.
"NERVOUSNESS”/“SHYNESS” is in your favor
when you tell the other person you are Nervous.
After you make contact, TALK to her Face to Face. NOT Social Media!!!
Just say: "I'm kinda NERVOUS talking to you, so if I mess up,
PLEASE, don't think I'm an idiot… okay? I'm just nervous."
She knows what it's like to be NERVOUS,
She will be UNDERSTANDING & NICE to you.
After that is Spoken, neither of you will be Nervous.
Your BIGGEST WEAKNESS has lost all of its POWER
and IS NOW IN YOUR FAVOR, because it is also a TOPIC of CONVERSATION
She can relate too.
- JohnJackLv 64 weeks ago
You’re a man so man up. Like you said, she’s nervous so be the one to embrace both your feelings. You’ve gotten this far so obviously you want to spend time with her so rather than worrying about what she thinks, or what to say, or where to go, enjoy the moment.
If it gets awkward, call out how nervous you both are, sometimes the best way to get out of it is to break the tension. Remember, she’s a human being as well, no need to be nervous.
- Anonymous4 weeks ago
be the one that takes the initiative and treat the woman to a lovely date she will never forget. Otherwise you are never going to have a decent relationship with her. Grow some balls and show her that you like her.
- 4 weeks ago
Grow some balls and make the effort. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.