Not into my partners fetish ?

I don't know how to tell this to them without hurting there feelings any idea? 

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  • 4 weeks ago

    how many partner are you talking about ?lol

    i depends on the fetish , maybe you can try it if it is not harmful or disgusting

    however , you always have the right to say no , and they have to respect that

  • 4 weeks ago

    Nope. If they’re really passionate about their fetish, there is no easy way. It’s hard to break something you enjoy so no matter how you say it, they won’t take it easily

  • Foofa
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    4 weeks ago

    You'd need to explain how someone become close enough to be your "partner" without you two having worked out your sexual chemistry first. If this someone you've been with for a while and they only just spring this fetish on you you really can't be held responsible if they're feelings are hurt. On the other hand if you've been engaging in this fetish out of subterfuge just to keep them and now you want to stop doing it, you are the erroneous party.

  • 4 weeks ago

    I think you need to try whatever it is. Take a chance. Get out of your comfort zone and take a chance on a new experience and a new adventure. Life us way to short.

    When you get old, you’re not going to regret the things you did, the places you’ve been people you’ve met. You’ll regret all the things you didn’t do! No go, live!

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  • 4 weeks ago

    You have to tell them, otherwise they'll continue believing you want what they want. Your wants are important too - and your feelings matter just as much as theirs. Think about that and say what needs to be said.

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