Poppy
Lv 4
Poppy asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 month ago

Is it wrong for a college student to be friends with a high school sophomore?

I'm 19 and asexual, we're just friends who met in an online gc but we're really close and the most important person in each other's eyes. Tbf I had just finished hs when we met, so I never considered it a big deal until recently.

As friends, we plan to meet up someday, possibly soon, but I only just realized that such a situation might be creepy. I'm an adult, she's sort of a kid, but we're both female, close friends, and I'm an asexual aromantic, so I have no ulterior motives of any sort. I've never had such a close friend so I'm excited to meet her and value her a lot, but I'm worried my actions might be seen as creepy?

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago
    Best Answer

    Ultimately this will come down to what her parents feel is appropriate. Under the circumstances you describe this is a bit odd but not entirely untoward...unless her family thinks it is. She's a minor so she doesn't get to make her own decisions on this one.

  • 1 month ago

    No...who cares..As you get older, you will see that age crap really doesn't matter. You are both teenagers with similar hobbies.

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