Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 4 weeks ago

guys, I need some help with girls ?

What’s your guys best pick up line to make conversation? Like how do you approach for example a classmate and make conversation with her without sounding like a weirdo ? I have the look I just need to be confident in my talking. 

6 Answers

  • 4 weeks ago
    Best Answer

    A VERY ATTRACTIVE girl I once met, said she only wanted to be friends... AND SHE WAS. She taught me this.

    When you make LIFE all about you... Nobody cares. 

    When you make Life about the people around you, 

    everyone tends to enjoy your company. 

    Anything and Everything you want to Change or Improve about 

    yourself will require PRACTICE. 

    There are many many things school taught you that you (most people) 

    will NEVER use in real Life. You probably realize this by now. 

    The solution to your problem/dilemma is simple. 

    Depending on your personality, it may NOT be EASY,

    but it's still Simple. 






    PRACTICE is just a way to LEARN to get better. 

    (High School / College / New Town / New Job) 

    Most guys, who care WAY TOO MUCH, usually project or 

    develop insecurities in themselves. 

    This does not Impress or Capture Women's Interest or Attention. 

    The key to Breaking the Ice with ANYONE, 

    is in the ability to make People Smile and Enjoy your company. 

    Always use Smiles, Humor and Compliments to approach people. 

    USE SMILES (to make them relax), 

    USE HUMOR (to make them Smile or Laugh), 

    USE COMPLIMENTS (to make them feel good about themselves 

    when they are around you)


    Wouldn't you want to be around someone 

    that made you feel good about yourself? 

    What someone else Wants, Thinks or Feels IS NEVER your concern. 

    If YOU like someone, YOUR HEART is what matters. 

    Your ONLY job/goal is to get by her side. In her company. 

    Once there, make her Smile, Laugh and Feel good about herself 

    with Compliments. 

    Wouldn’t you like being around someone that did that for you?? 

    This is how you win over people. Be Likable and Be Fun. 

    MAKE THIS YOUR PERSONALITY and people will look for/want

    to be around you. 

    All this may sound scary to you, 

    but aren't you already scared anyway… 

    And probably sick of being YOU. (the way you are) 

    CHANGE will Always be Uncomfortable… 

    until it becomes the way you do things. 

    Practice is about FAILING, until You Get Better. 

    DO NOT be afraid to Practice. 

    Practice is just taking BABY STEPS, until it becomes Who You Are. 

    Anyone who Rejects you is just PRACTICE. 

    Anyone who Engages you is PROGRESS. 

    Develop Popularity And The Girl You Are Looking For 

    Will Probably Find You. 

    If you don't start PRACTICING this now, you will lose out on many other opportunities (girls) in the future.

    The Players call it "Having Game."


    Practice and try this out: 

    Start by NOT making a big deal out of it. You'll only worry yourself. 

    SMILE at all the girls. "ALL" THE GIRLS. 

    Not just the ones that appeal to you. 

    This is PRACTICE… NOT Let's Find a GIRLFRIEND / BRIDE. 

    Say "Hi" to as many as possible.

    Don't pick and choose who you say "Hi" too, 

    because some of them have other friends, that you will like

    and they could do the introductions for you at some point. 

    Just like Sports... PRACTICE being Popular. 

    Practice is the start to most things. 

    Keep in mind and REMEMBER--Handsome, Beautiful or Butt Ugly 

    has "NOTHING" to do with PRACTICE. 

    Smile. Say "Hi". Tell her your name, ask her her’s, but compliment her on something you like about her, BEFORE you let her say her name. 


    You introduce yourself and compliment (the stranger) right away without letting them say their name. In case They were considering rejecting you, They now have a smile on Their face because of the compliment. 

    You just need to keep it there. 

    Then say... "I'm sorry, what was your name?" while still smiling. 

    One of the weakest qualities guys have with women is, the ability to hold a conversation. The secret to a conversation is asking a fun and simple question that a girl would enjoy answering. 

    Example: "I like your fingernail color. What color is that?" She says: "Ocean Spray Blue." You reply: "I knew you were going to do that. As a guy I would have said "a light shade of blue", but women always 'detail' their colors. Do girls get 'special training" on colors or what?"

    She'll giggle and give you an answer. 

    Ask her to name another color or Why is it girls do that? 

    Now you have her in a conversation. 

    She is enjoying a guy, enjoying her company. 

    Learn to Joke with people. It shows a sense of humor as they smile in your company. Example: "In my economics class I learned that TIME IS MONEY. Would you like to spend some with me?" 

    If She ask "Time or Money?" You SMILE and say. "YES." 

    IF IT’S TEXTING/Social Media: 

    "I read a question on Yahoo Answers that made me think of you. 

    Are you busy?" 

    If she ask "What was the question?" 

    Respond with. "Do you think this girl is PRETTY?" or 

    “Do you think this girl Likes Me” or 

    “Do you think this girl Would go on Date with me?” or 

    Whatever you want. 

    The thing is she responded to satisfy her curiosity. 

    PRACTICE this over and over. It's only scary the first 3 or 4 times. 

    Be nice and conversational to ALL the girls. Even plain girls have feelings and attractive friends, neighbors or cousins. 

    Be Respectful, you'll be remembered better. 

    Develop Popularity And The Girl You Are Looking For 

    Will Probably Find You. 

    If you don't start PRACTICING this now,

    you will lose out on many other opportunities (girls)

    in the future. The Players call it "Having Game."  

    REMEMBER--Handsome, Beautiful or Butt Ugly 

    has "NOTHING" to do with PRACTICE. 

    Because it's only practice... 

    it doesn't matter if you strike out over and over again. 

    Also, if you get rejected 100,000 times. 

    There is still a BILLION girls you haven't met... YET!!!!! 

    and Vice Versa, girls that haven't met You... YET!!!!! 


    CONFIDENCE is not about Succeeding. It's about NOT BEING AFRAID, 

    to Step Up, whether you get Accepted or Rejected. 

    After you get Accepted or Rejected, YOU WILL "Quit" 

    Torturing yourself with Worry and Curiosity. 

    If you REJECT yourself, BEFORE giving anyone else a chance too, 

    NOTHING WILL EVER HAPPEN FOR YOU and you will waste time 

    NOT Getting Experience. 


    In order to LOSE at ANYTHING... First you HAVE TOO "TRY" to WIN. 

    If you don't try, you won't be a Winner or a Loser... 

    which is just another way of saying... YOU'RE NOTHING.

    They do not teach you this in school and most of us (like me) have learned this the hard way. I’m here to help as much as possible to ANYONE WHO WILL LISTEN or Ask.

  • nanu
    Lv 5
    4 weeks ago

    Want to see if I am hung...................

  • 4 weeks ago

    Why not just start the conversation by stating how uncomfortable you are in your approach? Honesty right out of the gate can be quite charming.

  • Rick
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    'Hi, what do you have planned for the weekend?' or 'What are you up to tonight?' Asking any kind of open-ended questions (ones that can't be answered with yes or no) will cause the person to reveal something about themselves which means there's a chance to find something in common with them and start a conversation.

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  • 4 weeks ago

    Ask and listen. Making the conversation about you will point her in the wrong direction.

  • Dze
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    dont rush things, if your in class talk about class work, make it fun, get to know people .. the rest is easy peasy ..

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