I see this girl at a bus stop sometimes and I find her attractive. How do I approach her, start a conversation and keep it going?

More detailed situation: 

I see this girl at a bus stop sometimes and I find her really attractive.

Problem is that I'm too shy because I don't know what to say to her and I don't see my self fit for this. She is super clean and pretty while I look like a freaking hobo that's a little fat, wearing baggy clothes with a grey sweater and uncut long disorganized hair.

more specific question would be this:

What do I do? What change do I need to do first to make my self "better".

After that's been set, how would I approach her without making myself look creepy and weird and start a good conversation and keeping it going? Steps from absolute bottom to last and final step.

Thank you for the reply!

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  • 4 weeks ago

    "Bus Stop"

    Bus stop, wet day, she's there, I say

    Please share my umbrella

    Bus stop, bus goes, she stays, love grows

    Under my umbrella

    All that summer we enjoyed it

    Wind and rain and shine

    That umbrella, we employed it

    By August, she was mine

    Every morning I would see her waiting at the stop

    Sometimes she'd shopped and she would show me what she bought

    Other people stared as if we were both quite insane

    Someday my name and hers are going to be the same

    That's the way the whole thing started

    Silly but it's true

    Thinkin' of a sweet romance

    Beginning in a queue

    Came the sun the ice was melting

    No more sheltering now

    Nice to think that that umbrella

    Led me to a vow

    Every morning I would see her waiting at the stop

    Sometimes she'd shopped and she would show me what she bought

    Other people stared as if we were both quite insane

    Someday my name and hers are going to be the same

    Bus stop, wet day, she's there, I say

    Please share my umbrella

    Bus stop, bus goes, she stays, love grows

    Under my umbrella

    All that summer we enjoyed it

    Wind and rain and shine

    That umbrella, we employed it

    By August, she was mine

    Source(s): bus stop hollies google lyrics
  • 4 weeks ago

    Ask her how you should cut your hair to be able to date a girl like her?

  • 4 weeks ago

    Look, being a little fat doesn't matter. Maybe she likes guys/girls with baggy clothes and disorganized hair. The only way to find out is to approach her in a non-aggressive way and see how she reacts. If you're assuming that she doesn't like who you are... then the real issue is that YOU don't like who you are. And that's o.k. You want to change... and you can change. It just takes space, money, and a good mirror.

    • "approach her in a non aggressive way"

      How do I do that. I don't know what to say to her to seem non aggressive and needy.

  • David
    Lv 4
    4 weeks ago

    You're not gonna get everything answered here. Well, start making yourself look like a winner and not a hobo.

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