Poll: If my boyfriend doesn't try to stop me when I hurt myself physically, does it mean he doesn't love me?

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  • audrey
    Lv 7
    2 months ago
    Best Answer

    He may just be so horrified he doesn't know what to do. I know if someone I loved was doing that I would be scared. Please see a therapist and get help.

  • 2 months ago

    It means he doesn't know how to help you.

  • 2 months ago

    He doesn't want to encourage the behavior and by him stopping you, you are getting a reaction.

    If you don't get a reaction the behavior stops.

    This is a very dangerous way to get attention and you could really hurt yourself, you need to get some help.

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Why are you physically hurting yourself?

    Why are you trying to blame him for something that's your fault?

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  • polly
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    No.

    He knows that if he tries to stop you you're just going to continue the self harming behavior as a manipulative tactic,but if he ignores your behavior you're not getting the payoff that you were looking for,so ultimately you'll stop self harming.

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    No, it means you chose the wrong guy for you and you need help.

  • 2 months ago

    either that or option B hes into S&M

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    It means you need help.............

  • 2 months ago

    1. He's a jerk

    2. Don't manipulate others, ultimately you are responsible for yourself.

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