My downstairs neighbour asks me not to wear shoes in my own apt?
So I can't walk barefoot on my heels, and i also can't wear shoes..... Am I suppose to glide around?
Anyway I didn't want to be a pain in the butt, so I went out and bought a pair of those soft house slipers, but it makes my feet so sweaty! Then it hits me, why am I being told what to do in MY OWN apartment! I also tried to use headphones at night when i watch tv, which is also very uncomfortable, one time someone walked into my apt i didn't even realize it cuz i had headphones on.
And also, I can't just force my friends to take their shoes off whenever they come to visit me or me having a small gather together party. The other day I hosted a small 4 person dinner, and 2 girls were walking around in their high heels and the entire time I felt like downstair neighbour is gonna come up and take my head off, she also started having an negtive affect on my everyday life. I started to tip toeing around when I don't have the house slippers on.... I freaking tip toe all the way to the bathroom at night when I wake up to pee.
Anyway, I don't think I should be told what to do just because this apt has bad sound insulation.
So, in this case what should I do? Should I force myself to change my habit or is she simply being a pain in the butt?