Am I bisexual? HELPPP!!!?
I’ve always considered myself bisexual but as of lately I’ve been questioning it. I’m a girl and I know I like girls both romantically and sexually, but when it comes to guys I’m confused. Even though I have a clear romantic interest in guys it seems like I have no sexual interest in them. Like the idea of ******* a guy makes me cringe but at the same time I can’t help catching feelings for them. Also for some reason kissing is ok??? As long as it’s not for too long???HELP!!! Is there something I can do, or a word\reason for this because this sucks and it feels like I’ll never be able to have a relationship with a guy.
- reme_1Lv 711 months ago
CAll the gay center and see if there is a support group of gals your age who are questioning their sexuality.
- Sasha WhitefurLv 711 months ago
Being LGBT is a congenital condition. (developed before birth) Science is finding more evidence for it, every day. Therefore, it is not a sin, which is an outmoded concept.
- Original SinLv 611 months ago
Sexual orientation: The term sexual orientation is generally used to describe how a person — if they do — finds themselves sexually, affectionally, and/or romantically attracted to other people in regards to the gender of those people; which gender or genders of person a given person can be in love with and wants to have any kind of sex with. There may be varying degrees of those things or experiences of those things being more separate than unified: for instance, a person may be very sexually attracted to men, but more emotionally attracted to women or someone may find that romantic attraction for them, to anyone, usually plays a bigger part than sexual attraction.
Heterosexual (or straight): Someone who is solely or primarily (mostly) attracted to people of a different sex or gender than them, such as men who are attracted to women.
Queer: Generally, queer is an umbrella term that describes a person who is not heterosexual. Someone may use the term queer as the way they identify, period, or may use terms like those below and also identify as queer.
Homosexual (or gay, lesbian, same-gender loving, MSM or WSW): Someone who is solely or primarily (mostly) attracted to people of the same or similar sex or gender as them, such as men who are attracted to men.
Bisexual: Someone who finds they can feel attraction to people of more than one gender, be that to both men and women, to people of all gender identities, or who doesn’t experience gender as a major factor in their attractions, period.
Pansexual or Omnisexual: Someone who can feel attraction to people of all gender identities, or who doesn’t experience gender as a major factor in their attractions, period.
Asexual (or nonsexual): Someone who has not experienced or does not experience sexual attraction to others or does not have a desire to be sexual with partners. In other words, someone who is not sexually attracted to anyone of any gender.
Apasexual: Someone who feels a lack of significant interest in sex, or feels apathetic about sex in general.
Androsexual, gynesexual, ambisexual or skoliosexual: These terms are a different framework for orientation than the framework of heterosexuality, homosexuality and bisexuality, one that can be more inclusive and expansive than hetero/homo/bi and doesn’t require the gender of the person who is feeling the attraction to be defined in a given way, or at all. Androsexuality refers to someone who is attracted to masculinity, gynesexuality to femininity; am ambisexual is someone who can be attracted to both or either, or experiences gender as a non-issue, and a skolisexual, someone who is attracted to non-cisgender or non-binary people in general. Asexuality is also included in this framework. This framework doesn’t make rigid asssumptions about the other person’s gender, either: a person can be attracted to masculinity in women or femininity in men, for example.
Pomosexual: Someone who rejects or does not identify as or with any categorization of sexual orientation as a form of identity. Pomosexual is basically a term for someone who is of the “labels are for soup cans” camp regarding orientation.
Questioning (or -curious or -flexible, like bicurious or heteroflexible): Someone who isn’t sure right now, or has never been, of what their sexual orientation is; who is in the process of figuring that out. Terms like bicurious or whatever-flexible usually are used by someone who feels an interest or curiosity about a given gender of people sexually, but is still in the process of questioning. A term like that is sometimes also used to describe an interest in people of a given gender that’s there, but not felt as so central to be part of someone’s overall orientation.
- Anonymous11 months ago
you're a lesbian. and you don't need relationships with guys. why would you even want one? stick with girls and stay away from guys and you'll be happy.
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- Mx_intersex_folxLv 711 months ago
Sounds like you're a biromantic lesbian. Don't worry too much about it, you don't have to attach a label on it
- choko_canyonLv 711 months ago
I think you're obsessed with sexuality labels and designations for no good reason. Your sexuality is what you feel it is, WHATEVER that is. That's the definition of sexuality; how you feel, sexually. Sexuality is a continuum: a spectrum or range of feelings. No one is absolutely 100% ANYTHING, it's all a range of feelings and preferences. Labeling yourself as one thing and one thing ONLY is a limiting thing, not a liberating one. Resist labeling yourself. Don't try to define who you are to one narrow little pigeonhole. Be whoever you are, and embrace however you feel. You're someone who is sexually and romantically interested in women, but only interested in men in a romantic way and not sexually. There you go. That's who you are. It's not a problem unless you make it one.
- iammclaneLv 711 months ago
You're overthinking this. You don't need to understand and adopt an official description for how you feel about boys and girls. You don't need to think about it at all.
What you know about your feelings DOESN'T determine who you will date in the future. It's the reverse.
Who you date, and how much you enjoy those dates, will let you discover your feelings.
So just pursue those things and those people that seem naturally intriguing to you. That's all. You don't need to know or understand anything else. Mother Nature will take care of the rest in due course. It's like autopilot.